Why is it that all of a sudden something like 20 guys I am not attracted to (like married guys, creepy guys, guys who are too young, guys that are too old etc. etc.ect.) bombard me at once saying they are totally Infatuated with me, they are redesigning their house for me etc. etc.. While the one guy that I would give the time of day to doesn't show any interest in me? I am 26 years old and this has happened many times in my life. What is the deal here?? I haven't lead any of these guys on, why are they infatuated with me?
2006-08-10 15:03:09 · 30 answers · asked by JustCurous 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They don't know each other and I don't dress naste. Did you read the details?? That why I said that I didn't do anything to lead them on. I am not too good for anyone just don't date married men and I am selective, so be it!
2006-08-10 15:31:55 · update #1
Because you didn't lead them on. Maybe you were just being yourself around them. Sometimes nothing can be sexier than that, and guys get the wrong idea. Doesn't that suck? Being fake gets you unwanted attention, being real gets you unwanted attention... Just be honest with these guys I guess, and be glad you have such a problem.
2006-08-10 15:08:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
THEY MIGHT HAVE A RUNNING BET: WHO WILL TAME THE SHREW?
Just kidding. Seriously though, you are probably sending signals that you are available....that you want to be noticed, and they they have a chance with you. If they are all infatuated with you, all redesigning their homes for you, etc then either you are leading them on,or they all called each other to collect on their bet.
2006-08-10 15:11:50 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 26 you are at a prime age of being very healthy, lively, beautiful, sexy and no doubt a flirt.
At the same time if you are interested in one particular person. Why don't you show your interest in him? hmmm.
Anyway, you must like the attention of all these men.
2006-08-10 15:51:49 · answer #3 · answered by dax0813 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your nutz and believe you are too attractive like most woman out there...I'm a homosexual and I can't even tell you how many woman assume I'm infatuated with them....it's pathetic really. Get over yourself and get a life...or you will be alone forever. Your looks will fade if you have them at all and then you will be an ugly spinster....don't waste your time consumed with yourself.
2006-08-10 15:08:37 · answer #4 · answered by billyboysblue 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
My brother once told me something when I was very young ......when a guy just flips over you and they really don't know you as a person he wants to get in your pants. It has nothing to do with how cute you are, how sexy you are, it's not about you at all ....they just want to get in your pants. Tomorrow there will be 20 guys attracted to some other girl.
So don't be flattered.
2006-08-10 15:11:17 · answer #5 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Um, wow. Is this a serious question? By saying that you would give one guy the "time of day," it sounds like you think you are better than everyone else and too good for these 20 guys. Get over yourself. Or give some of them a chance.
2006-08-10 15:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by kid_at_heart 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Because they are guys. I know some of us may act like d i cks but we sure do have one. You know what they say "boys will be boys." Only a real man would have had the respect enough to wait and you do it to them. Yeah they're boys not men!
2006-08-10 15:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your wearing a big sign saying hello jerks come to me. At least thats what it feels like because all of us women go through this at some point in our lives. Just disappear for a while and they will go away. Thats what I do. Good luck.
2006-08-10 15:09:01 · answer #8 · answered by Medical and Business Information 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yeah what's up with that? What did you do to make 20 guys turn up? Were you acting all slutty in front of them. Maybe something you wore that turned them all on??
2006-08-10 15:24:23 · answer #9 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are desperate! Thought you might be an easy target. Stand your ground and don't give into a creep you don't want anything to do with. Good luck
2006-08-10 15:08:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋