I'm 38....was married young, now divorced, so I haven't had alot of partners when it comes to sexual relations....i'm wondering how long you should be going with someone before its ok to be intimate with your partner....I'm still a bit old fashion I guess...I think you should get to know someone....but at my age, i don't feel like I need to worry about things like I did at one time
2006-08-10 14:36:40 · 23 answers · asked by smt1967 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Age don't matter, just don't give it up right away.Wait to know the person, and when you feel it's right it's RIGHT.Trust your inner thoughts.Good luck
2006-08-10 14:41:55 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. The whole waiting until you are married thing does not just go for young people . Its for every age. If you sleep with someone before you are married , that is still wrong. You can still get disease . You can still have someone take advantage of you. You can still get pregnant. Are those things you are willing to risk ? You are just as bad as all of the dumb kids.
2006-08-10 21:48:01 · answer #2 · answered by sweenygirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
until you are comfortable and you feel ready. there are no rules and no time limits. maybe not on the first date. other than that if you are the guy are meant to be together he will wait as long as you need. because you seem to want a relationship i would be up front with the guy and let him know that your not sure how long you want to wait but that you don't want to rush things. if he is a nice guy who,likes you he will understand. good luck.
2006-08-10 21:42:03 · answer #3 · answered by burn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it still depends on how comfortable the partner feels.
you should still get to know the person a little bit and see how it goes. dont just try to get your partner into bed. get to know them.
but then again at that age some people dont really care either, they just wanna get into it. thast what i think.
2006-08-10 21:43:40 · answer #4 · answered by krissy_pod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people on Yahoo answers want specific answers to abstract questions and there's no way; it's not cut and dry.
If this guys in it for the long term it's up to you. Don't do it just to keep him or to make him happy. Do you want to get married? again it's up to your faith your feelings and your future. Good luck.
2006-08-10 21:42:00 · answer #5 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you trust the other person and feel totally comfortable with them, and can discuss things like contraception . No time limit, when it feels right for you.
2006-08-10 21:43:48 · answer #6 · answered by n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should worry use protection you dont know where someone has been. Get to know them unless you just want to get laid and go with the flow.
2006-08-10 21:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by musicluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people wait and some don't you need to do what YOU feel is right for you... you're inner self will tell you when to make love... Trust your gut instincts
2006-08-10 21:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one that can honestly answer this question...I say when your comfortable enough in the relationship- that is unless your looking for a quick lay to get you back in the saddle....hee hee hee...jk
2006-08-10 21:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by sammy22005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a man cares for you he will wate.dont get suckered in.if i was dating you i would beg even cry and tellyou all kinds of lies to get in your drawers and i would try my best to wear you down and if i made you i would leave to look for another easy lay .. when he is gone remember the olddog told you he would...aint going to say no more on this
2006-08-10 22:03:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋