Do still find a girl attractive that is maybe 20-30 lbs overweight but is beautiful in the face. I have a friend that is beautiful but is just a little bit overweight.... and she has such a hard time getting a boyfriend! i dont understand why.... i think she is one of the prettiest girls i know... big boobs... (not much of a butt)... perfect hair... I just dont understand how guys dont see that! is being skinny more important?
2006-08-10 14:35:04 · 39 answers · asked by cassidy s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that guys want the FULL PACKAGE! they are so picky!! so a girl is N/A in her bra cup, who cares!! what is more important is a personality and self esteem and how they feel about you! see, guys want big *** boobs and a nice tight firm ***!!! they are just so mean when it comes to stuff like that!! i really dont understand it much myself to be honest! this is just what i think from answers my friend has got on her Q's!!
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2006-08-10 14:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
My girlfriend is quite overweight [but not by too much] and is still beautiful, loving, honest, & wonderful in everyway I can think of. I'm thin and muscular, but being with a thin/normal girl doesn't matter to me. I love my girlfriend the way she is, no matter what. I guess most guys only go with skinny girls because they look better in any type of clothing and have a more attractive body in their eyes. Just because a female is overweight doesnt' always mean she eats all the time and isn't healthy, alot of other factors contribute to that, ex. slow metabolism, being 'thick' runs in the family...cant really avoid that.
2006-08-10 14:40:26 · answer #2 · answered by TriNStylZ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all there's a reason why some of the most beautiful women in hollywood sometimes get divorced a lot or can't find dates. They're high maintenance jerks.
The best way to be is just be pleasant and fun to be around and be kind. Just be yourself; It will all come together. If someone only likes you because of the outside they're too shallow to really have anything meaningful. Your better than that and deserve more.
2006-08-10 14:39:15 · answer #3 · answered by Ice4444 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My thoughts are something else is wrong. There are plenty of Guys that like women with a little bit of body. I count myself among them. I have friends that only date women of Large size.
I am attracted to a women by face and features but her attitude and confidence are just as important. I have dated plenty of woman that didn't meet my standards. I even married one.
Review your friend honestly and you'll probably find why she doesn't have a boy friend
2006-08-10 14:44:57 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, a girl can still be attractive even if they are overweight. Personality counts but not that much. Looks counts the most (sad to say). But, even if a person is overweight and they are confident, but not arrogant, then it will show.
2006-08-10 14:39:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-17 08:48:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
20 to 30 lbs of fat takes up quite a bit of space and is very unattractive. It doesn't sound like much when you say it, but fat is very bulky. I probably would not date her. There are some characteristics women can have that would make me absolutely refuse to date them, though. Smoking is one of them. No matter how attractive a woman is, smoking will kill any desire I had for her because I loathe smoking. Corpulence is one of those features that turns me off. It just doesn't look right to me. Of course, I am fairly lean myself, so that could be why. Good luck finding her a bf!
2006-08-10 14:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
20-30 lbs is not that bad. If her personality is as beautiful as the face, then she is perfect. Weight can always change when she is ready to change it.
2006-08-10 14:41:29 · answer #8 · answered by electrician 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like 'em girls that are a little voluptuos. As long as they take care of their skin, no cellulites, and smells great, not sweaty or otherwise, I like them. In the middleages, these are the perfect body frame for women. Check out paintings from those time.
2006-08-10 14:41:03 · answer #9 · answered by megalomanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like a girl with a little meat to her... Just as long as she is not bigger than me. She can always work on getting rid of the extra weight but it's what is on the inside that really counts.
2006-08-10 14:41:15 · answer #10 · answered by Guzzy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like women with a little bit extra on them, who can be natural and feel comfortable with themselves, but it is true, most men are stupid and would rather have the perfection of looks, than the right person in their life.
2006-08-10 14:41:03 · answer #11 · answered by curiousandsmiley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋