I see my friends dating for like months on end but then I end up having a girl for about 2-3 weeks what am i doing wrong or what should i do to make it last and hopefully get far with it
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2006-08-10 14:30:59 · 14 answers · asked by Boguck 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have to keep her interest by not falling into a fixed routine. As long as you can keep her mind entertained and her needs satisfied she will stick around. Too often guys start slacking off and become dull. Whatever attracted her in the first place must have been either a false image or not kept alive by your actions. Women are not that complicated. If you keep them entertained, fed and pamper them but also remind them you are no fool they will respect you more. Like the story goes as long as each date ends with something left unexplained or unanswered she will come back for more. Hold her interest by doing different things and having her explain her ideas. Women love to talk about themselves and it is the guy that lets them ramble without losing interest that keeps them.
2006-08-10 14:40:18 · answer #1 · answered by mr conservative 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Communication, and never let the relationship get boring. Always find ways to put or add a little spice to it. The more you two have in common, the better you have a chance at having a long lasting relationship. Trust is always an important factor too.
2006-08-10 14:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Common_Sense2 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your still young!! Have fun while you can. But the main thing is to talk and listen to one another. That's the key. You should have at least one thing in common with the girl so there for you will have something to talk about. Listen to each others feelings. And be there for her when she needs you! Hope this helps. You still a lot of time to find that right one for you.
2006-08-10 14:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't hop into a relationship just to keep up with your friends. Find the right girl and it will last. And it may not be meant to happen right now.
2006-08-10 14:35:34 · answer #4 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't push yourself on the girl take it easy try to be a little caring and show interest try not to use girls for one thing also ask your friends how they deal with there long relationships
2006-08-10 14:36:00 · answer #5 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want ur relationship to last. then you need to start respecting her and start paying more attention to her. Give and take compensate
2006-08-10 14:37:21 · answer #6 · answered by ikiwyou 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
r u ending the relation ship or is she?u need 2 kepp lookin i guess.
2006-08-10 14:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Liv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about or compare yourself to your friends. Be a gentleman and worry more about developing your skills and your life.
2006-08-10 14:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be nice to the girl dont treat her like she is trash do what your friend do not what u do
2006-08-10 14:41:27 · answer #9 · answered by allie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just haven't found the one. when you find the one you won't even have to ask that question. you'll just want to be with her forever.
2006-08-10 14:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by lilgracie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋