she cheated on me with another girl but all they really did was lay in a bed together...and "peck" kiss (as she says)...and i gave her a second chance because she sounded very sincere and veeerrry sorry so i did give her a second chance but i told her i dont belive in third chances so if she screws up again then its over...should i have given her a second chance??? i really wanna be with her...but she hurt me really bad....
2006-08-10 14:10:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't tell you if you were right or wrong in this matter. Only you know that. But you have to stand next to your word when you say that you will leave her if she does it again. If you did really forgive her, then you can't bring this up when you guys have an argument and you can't hold this against her.
By the way, I wouldn't believe that all she did was kiss that other girl, but that's just me.
2006-08-10 14:15:10 · answer #1 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well you should have given it more time, but well no it's not a bad thing, if you want to be with her and you feel she is trustworthy, then you have ever right to stay with her. I mean this time, be on guard and just watch her more closely. And well if you really want this to last longer and prevent another cheating moment. Ask her why she did it. See what she has to say, maybe there is something that you need to do. Maybe not. If you feel it's worth it then give it a shot.
2006-08-10 21:17:12 · answer #2 · answered by darkgothicshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's up to you whether you want to forgive her or not.
I must say... that's quite forgiving of you. A lot of people wouldn't do that. There's nothing wrong with it of course. Kind of admirable, in a way. ^_^ If you want to give her a second chance, that's really good of you. Don't feel like you did the wrong thing.
2006-08-10 21:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by arcmdark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iPersonally, I wouldn't give her a second chance. She was mean and thoughtless. If you decide to give her a second chance, let her know that this is her second and last chance. If she screws up again.cut her loose and don't talk with her anymore. you don't deserve to let her keep hurting you.
2006-08-10 21:21:04 · answer #4 · answered by Media Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love conquers all right? So go for it. See if she deserves the second chance u gave her.
2006-08-10 21:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by babypurple_jo15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. Once a cheater, always a cheater. If she does it once, she'll do it again, and maybe worse next time. Plus, I dunno if I would believe that they only "peck kissed" anyways. I don't think anyone does that. Hormones come into play too much, and you know darn good and well, something else is going to happen. No one has that much self control. You know it's true.
2006-08-10 21:16:09 · answer #6 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well everybody do deserves a second chance but no a third so why don't you try to continue remember that time heals everything
2006-08-10 21:15:43 · answer #7 · answered by originalquene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on and date a guy instead of a girl.
Lesbians don't have morals since being gay in itself is wrong, so why would ur "girlfriend" have a problem with cheating on you?
2006-08-10 21:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you did the right thing. but you should learn to forget also so that you would not be so affected. this kind of incident may get in the way of your present relationship if you can't let go and forget.....cheers!
2006-08-10 21:16:32 · answer #9 · answered by (◕‿◕✿) 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every one deserves a second chance
2006-08-10 21:16:15 · answer #10 · answered by ltngirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋