2006-08-10 13:55:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you are insecure about how you look and feel
2006-08-10 13:57:47 · answer #1 · answered by Pearls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're probably in your teens. I think everyone feels insecure at some point in their teens. Girls are not as caught up on physical attributes as men are. Women can be attracted to a guy who is physically average looking if he has a killer sense of humor, smile, great hair and is sweet, honest, thoughtful, kind. etc.
If a guy is a super hot lookijng dude, but is inconsiderate and has a dud of a personality, he's not as likely to get the hot girls as the guys who's got the killer sense of humor, who treats her right, but
is a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10.
So, don't give it a second thought. Learn how to take a compliment. Just say, "Thanks. That's awfully nice of you."
You could have been picked on while you were growing up and you have some residual insecurities. You'll grow out of it as you grow up and learn to make the best of what you have.
Good luck. It seems like you're off to a great start!!
2006-08-10 21:05:08 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude I know how you feel man, seriously I do. I mean most girls think I'm ugly. And well some girls think I'm cute. But well my ex-girlfriend is super hot as well. And well she keeps trying to convince me I'm not ugly. Seriously man, if your hot girlfriend thinks your not ugly, then stick with that. I messed up my relationship really badly with this nice and attractive girl. And it was over the fact that I always put myself down, and she doesn't like guys like that. So well before you end up like me man. Realize you aren't ugly, you've had plenty of girls think that you are cute, hot, sexy, etc... And to top it all off you have a hot girlfriend. So well stick with the fact that you aren't ugly, realize it and believe it. But well don't become vain, but just be proud that you have a hot girlfriend and she is with you. Believe me man if you were ugly she wouldn't be dating you. I know you probably think that she is so wonderful that even if you were ugly she'd still love you. Seriously she wouldn't, I learned that the hard way. So well just cool down, take it easy, look in the mirror and practice saying "I'm not ugly, I'm attractive, and I have a hot girlfriend"
2006-08-10 21:04:14 · answer #3 · answered by darkgothicshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is an inside job. The best fella I ever loved was 450 pounds when I met him, and chronic body odor. It wasn't pretty. What got me with him was DEFINATELY not his looks, or the way he smelled! It was the fact that he was gentle (still is) generous, (still is) and had a wonderful sense of humor.(Still does)
Don't worry about your outer appearance, other than basic hygiene. Wash and wear clean clothes. Be kind. Girls will dig you. It's that simple.
2006-08-10 21:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by wo_manifest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean. Sometimes when I date a really nice looking guy, I don't feel "good enough" so, therefore, I feel ugly. Just try to get over it and enjoy your "cutie"
2006-08-10 20:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by my2cents 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you feel ugly on the inside and others are looking at you on the outside
2006-08-10 21:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is your self esteem down or has some body been telling you that you may be cute but you still ain't all of that you need to work on your self esteem and love yourself for you and nobody else i'm glad you are not stick on your self take your compliment and keep on going you will be ok hold your head up and smile
2006-08-10 21:04:10 · answer #7 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe something you went thru as a younger child caused you to feel worthless. The same thing happened to my son when his dad and me got divorced. His dad cut him out of his life completely for many years, so my son felt like he was worthless.
2006-08-10 20:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by IthinkFramptonisstillahottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just becaue you don't like the way you look, doesn't mean someone else sees you that way. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, my boyfriend tells me. I don't like the way I look, but he thinks I am beautiful. It takes someone special to see all the good things both inside and out. :)
2006-08-10 21:02:17 · answer #9 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are like that
dont make a big deal about it
just remind urself look at my gf
2006-08-10 21:01:19 · answer #10 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont see yourself they way other people see you. when you look you see all the flaws, ways your face and body could look better etc... this is common to just about everybody. i bet your girlfriend doesnt think shes as hot as you think she is.
its just human nature. remember to look at the good things about yourself and try to ignore the flaws - try to see what everybody else sees
2006-08-10 21:00:42 · answer #11 · answered by cherrilynn2828 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋