my mom's friend is staying at our house for a few weeks, and she brought her 16 year old son. he's really nice and sweet, so we hung out a little. we talked for a really long time, without doing ANYTHING. last night i woke up in the middle of the night and he was standing next to my bed, looking at me. of course i was REALLY FREAKED OUT so i was like uhh wtf man. then he whispered in my ear "wanna do it?"
from then i was so shocked and half asleep that i didn't know what to do, so i told him to get out
he hasn't talked to me hardly at all today
i don't want that to happen ever again, i'm only 15 and that's just weird
how can he be my friend again without things being weird?
2006-08-10 13:54:25 · 14 answers · asked by jenny lou 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but it's not like i can avoid him.. he's staying here for a long time and i don't want to be ignored the whoooole time
2006-08-10 14:13:46 · update #1
You need to talk to your mom... and you need to talk to him. As difficult as both of these conversations are, you MUST have them! Let your mom know you can handle the situation but that you want her to be aware if you do end up needing her help, then tell him exactly what you told us... that you enjoyed hanging out with him, but that you are only 15 and have NO interest in him otherwise. You need to be firm in making him understand that IF he ever makes any unwanted advances on you EVER you will immediately go to both parents and let them know. At 16, he's old enough to know better! Good luck and stay safe... (it's nice to have a MATURE 15 year old on here too!)
2006-08-10 14:03:29 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. that is not right what he did that is wrong. i would feel the same way u do and u did the right thing. keep him away from you. tell your mom if u dont feel comfortable around him. what a psycho he is. Going in your bedroom at night . what if u didint wake up. who knows what he was doing or going to do in your room. Tell him to F off and die.
2006-08-10 21:04:23 · answer #2 · answered by europe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably shouldn't try to be his friend, because you might be sending him the wrong message. I think you should also tell your mom about this. You could wind up in another situation like this one again. He could rape you next time.
2006-08-10 21:02:19 · answer #3 · answered by bme79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was in your room at night... I wouldn't WANT him to be my friend again, I'd tell your mom and hopefully get him the hell out of there so nothing happens.
2006-08-10 21:00:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
too much to worry at such a young age. Go get ready for school
2006-08-10 20:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by bicheeeened30 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Lock your door! Tell your mom.
2006-08-10 21:09:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom if she don't kick him out you will cut his neck you don't want to wake up getting raped
2006-08-10 21:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would u want him 2 be ur friend?watch out he might be forcefull and rape you. lock ur room door at night!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-10 21:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no point in being his friend! he might try that again.
2006-08-10 21:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by nice01guyin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm he just mad that you said no he should get over it just give him time! hope everything works out fine
2006-08-10 21:01:46 · answer #10 · answered by stellarkartfan16 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋