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I'm 13 yrs. old and I have a 13 year-old boyfriend of 3 mos. I like him because he is very intelligent, and he cares for me, but i haven't seen him since school ended,and he's only called me once. My bff tells me how everybody else is making out, holding hands and talk to each other everyday for long periods of time-i only talk to mine for 5-10 mins. I still like him, but it makes me wonder since everyone else is moving on to the next step in their relationships. I know it shouldn't be a big deal, but...,.what should i do/if anything at all?

2006-08-10 13:54:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Wait for school to start again, after all, it is something to look forward to. its good to take things slowly, it keeps the charm, right Sweet?.. well, i think you should talk to him about meeting up with you someplace perhaps, a movie? or even a walk? but remember all those couples who are making out and whatnot are probably sick of each other now.. so didnt worry Sweet and take your time, besides, i haven't even seen my boyfriend of 8 month since school ended either, but that's what keeps our relationship stronger. hope this helps sweetie
good luck *

2006-08-10 14:01:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You're 13. That's the problem. You can't have a mature relationship at 13. Remember; girls mature faster that boys. Usually by two years ahead, too. So, this guy is matured at the level you were two years ago, when you were 11.

2006-08-10 20:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0 0

Well it sounds to me like you guys are drifting apart. If you live in the same city and he doesn't seem to have time to spend with you alone then sorry sweetie but it may not work. Talk to him about how you are feeling and see if anything changes. If he truly caress then things will happen if not you are better off. Good Luck

2006-08-10 20:59:38 · answer #3 · answered by Sherrie 3 · 0 0

He's probably just oblivious to the world around him. I ended up doing sorta the same thing when I was 20 years old.

And ya know what, your fingers aren't broken. CALL HIM!

2006-08-10 21:01:11 · answer #4 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0 0

Nothing! Wait til you get married. Holding hands is about it.

2006-08-10 21:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you're only 13!! why do you need a boyfriend? You've like just become a teenager,enjoy it while it lasts, cause it won't last long!!

2006-08-10 21:02:37 · answer #6 · answered by confusedgirl 2 · 1 0

it might be he isn't ready for that part of a relationship. Don't think nothing of it....if you care about him and he cares for you then it will happen eventually.

2006-08-10 21:00:06 · answer #7 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0 0

No you are to young for this.. You need to be reading books this summer..

2006-08-10 21:01:40 · answer #8 · answered by meow 2 · 1 0

You say it best when you say nothing at all.

2006-08-10 21:02:07 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0 0

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