This guy and I had a unofficial relationship for about 3 months. Well currently I havent seen him in about the same amount of time: 3 months b/c Im on school vacation. Before I left he was acting weird. He dint call me as much, he wasnt so touchy feely. Our last night together he left me hanging. If you know what I mean. When I call him he doesnt answer. Hes called me 4 times in these 3 months. Asking me if I found anyone else. When I say I have he tries to give me advice, things like be safe, do the right thing etc...Why is he telling me how to be with another guy? He asks me if I want to see him again. He said he left me hanging the last time to make sure I come back. Hes so arrogant. But I want him so bad. He told me he was on the prowl but hadnt found anybody. I DONT GET IT. Why wont be just be my man? He said himself our relationship was good, but he never asked me out!
2006-08-10 13:36:45 · 12 answers · asked by Tian 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He plays games with you because you let him. Stop wanting him so bad. Is any guy worth that??? If he thought anything of you he wouldent do that!
2006-08-10 13:40:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he knew you were serious and he felt bad that you really weren't his type. Try to remain friends. But he's a playa.... If you want something serious, look somewhere else. I am not saying he's a looser, just not your type. Good luck and because you are talking about school, I am assuming you are pretty young... 17 at most. Girl, leave them alone right now. You can make them your toys, have fun with them (without sex) and have a lot of friends. But work on your studies and try not to get serious about anyone yet ;-)
2006-08-10 20:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by jennifer c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control of your own love life. If you think the two of you should be in a relationship then tell him that is what you want now. And let him know that if he can't be that for you then your going to move on. Boys play games, especially the young ones, but that doesn't mean we have to play along. Know what you want and get it, whether it's from HIM or someone else.
2006-08-10 20:41:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. It sounds like he's only keeping you for backup.. If hes acting like this after u guys had sex, then it probably means hes not interested anymore since that was the only thing he was after.. if he really likes you then he wouldnt waste his time and just be with you.. FORGET HIM!! theres so many guys out there and would probably spend more time with u.
2006-08-10 20:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by ikiwyou 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait for him to come to his senses to ask you out
Just hang in there your worth the truth !
2006-08-10 20:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by darla c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a good talk with your mama, you cant be with someone like tat.
I mean girl get a back bone and move on .
2006-08-10 21:00:24 · answer #6 · answered by ikis&tel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, to well n truely get ur answer, why don't you take the bull by the horns n u ask him out??? then ul get an answer from him, but if he keeps jerkin u round like this, then he's just that.. a jerk!!! good luck!
2006-08-10 20:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by cassycookie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he has a girl on the side or he just wants you around until he finds someone better. He just want SEX!!!. Sorry hes just not that into you......
2006-08-10 21:26:22 · answer #8 · answered by Je t'aime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey? there are many fish in the sea, if you have a question on how he feels? then you need to look again.
2006-08-10 20:42:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ava B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is stringing you along,so he will have something / some one to do in case the girl he's after / with now rejects him.
2006-08-10 20:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by foxxynatasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋