do u think?

Question

do u think it would b a good time 2 move n with each other and im only 17 and his 18 turning 19 soon and we have money but should we move out of town go were he lives or were i live or just do wat we doin now livin apart

Answer 1

i moved in with my ex right after i turned 18. i had no job skills, and he wanted me to stay home. so when he decided to quit his job, we were screwed, and we ended up in a homeless shelter. we eventually left there and i found work, as did he, but we lived from hotel room to hotel room for over a year before we found an apartment, which we got with his sister. but then she bailed on us, and the rent was too high for us alone to pay, so we got evicted,and found another place. he lost his job and wouldn't look for another one, and i couldn't afford it on my own, so we got evicted from there too....or at least i did. he went back to his mom's place, and didn't even tell me where he was going. he just never came back. so if you do move in with him, make sure that he's willing to do whatever it takes to survive, adnd that he would never leave you hanging out to dry the way my ex did me. love makes you ideakistic, especially when you're young, and can blind you to the reality of things. i thought i had found my prince charming..... instead i had a piece of ****.hope for the best, prepare for the worst.

Answer 2

Both of you are still too young. You have not experience truth love and what you would face living together. Give both yourself more breathing space and time.
Living together can turn into a 'prison'. If either of you are not able to adjust, then it would ruin your relationship very quickly and painful. Maturity of the mind is crucial to a long term relationship.
You should wait for him to find a more secure and stable job. A 18 year old guy is just starting his career.

Answer 3

First of all how long have you been together? ... If you've been together for a long *** time you shouldn't even have to consider this question! I personally have been with my man for over two and a half years. I had my own place and he slept over most of the time, so I finally asked if he wanted to move in with me. Just in case things did go sour I'd have a place to stay. So thats' an option?... Finally after a year of him sleeping over we moved outta state and are living together. It's best to do the "SLEEPOVER" thing so that you can get used to each others habits and see where he's coming from and what he's all about. Either way good LUCK!

~Note: We've also been neighbors for a long *** time too... so thats why I asked him to move in when i did.

Answer 4

well uh i understand u both probably love eachother a lot otherwise u wouldnt be comin to this conclusion but i dont think ure ready at 17 but only cuz the longer u stay at home the less u pay(smart huh,though not till ure 30 or something of coarse)i mean u may pay rent but in the real world everything is exspensive so take it easy if u both came to this desison talk it over thoroughly and dont miss a beat if u still wanna liv w/ him then move in w/ him not him w/ u (its better) when the time is right ull know trust me best of luck

Answer 5

I think if you want to ruin the rest of your life and skip your teen-age years, you should move in with a dude.

Don't worry about the innocence of youth. Don't think about the Prom, graduation and going to college. You see, you're 17 now and you're a woman of the world. You have this mature dude of 18 who is going to take care of you now and you won't have a worry in the world.

Now, if you believe what I just wrote, go ahead. If you think I'm not exactly right, then give it time. You have all your life to grow up.

TX Guy

Answer 6

well it's up to you, I mean if you are ready to be that close and you think you can handle it then well just try staying around your home area first, if you can handle 6 months are so without killing each other, of living together, then you should be fine with leaving your town, city, state, whatever. Just take it nice and slow though. Don't rush into doing anything, if you make a mistake while going slow, you can fix it alot easier than just rushing and making more problems for yourself.

Answer 7

If you guys have been in a relationship for awhile and you love eachother, I don't see why you can't. But I wouldn't recommend moving out of town. If it doesn't work, you don't want to be stuck in the middle of now where with no one you know. I would sit down together if your serious about movin in together and talk about your options and even make a list of expenses so you guys know how much your spending n such. Good luck.

Answer 8

No matter how you look at it.. at your age its too soon and too early. Think about your future and think about it thoroughly. It's gonna be hard and youre probably not even sure if hes the right person for you. If he breaks up with you jsut because you decided not to live in with him right now, then it only gives u a better reason not to.

Answer 9

if yall are certain that yall are not going to break up then go right ahead in move in together I'm not to sure on who should move in with who. if you are not to sure about moving in with him ask him to move with you. i think yall should talk some more before making a decision like that that create a problem for both of yall in the long run

good luck and wish you the best

Answer 10

I think you guys might be a little young to be moving in together/ maybe you should write out a lifeplan first (I mean some kind of agreement about who pays what) job stuff schedules~~if you want to make adult choices, its good to plan~~if you cant plan, it probably wont last anyways

but good luck