I want to know if your girlfriend asked you to have a threesome would you do it? But... she wants it with another man. If she says to you, if you do this threesome for me, then we can do a threesome with you and another woman. What would you do? Please answer because my boyfriend says I'm nuts to ask this of him, is it really not a good thing for a man? But he wants me to with a woman and that's not fair.
2006-08-10 13:24:53 · 17 answers · asked by Red Apple Martini 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my g/f and i have had a threesome with other guys.we've done it more than once.we have also done it with other womenmore than once.the point where i draw the line is if she askes me to have relations with the guy.the bi thing isn't my bag so she need not ask.
before going through with a threesome , whether it be with a male or a female; be aware that you and your b/f must completely trust one another.if either of you have trust issues, don't do it.it could cause the two of you a great deal of problems in your relationship.
2006-08-10 13:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, this is the same situation my man and I have. But, we have had FFM threesomes. A couple to be exact. He told me if I wanted to have a MMF with him he didn't think he could get past the jealousy. That was the answer I looked for because I feel comfortable, to a point, doing a FFM, but I couldn't bare to put my hands on another male because I love my man soooo much! I just laid down some rules to him about the FFM. All is well, we had our first over 2 months ago and we are still in love!
2006-08-10 13:32:07 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ Callie Ann ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to want to do this and not just as a 'favor' to your boyfriend. Anytime you invite a 3rd party in the relationship, it is asking for trouble. This isn't about fairness. Think about the repercussions-
this may be a little of the subject, but remember the movie Indecent Proposal with Demi Moore and Robert Redford? Even though there was a mutual consent, look at the damage caused by bringing someone else into the relationship.
2006-08-10 13:30:59 · answer #3 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most guys wouldn't want your kind of a threesome b/c it's like a male-ego thing. It would be very awkward for him. Me, personally, I wouldn't mind doing a threesome, but I wouldn't want my guy doing her at all! Like the other chick would just be there for me. Haha. Why not just do a foursome? You two and another couple that way you & him both get what you want.
2006-08-10 13:31:20 · answer #4 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're both seeking to do something pretty destructive.
I'm BY NO MEANS some religious conservative (in fact, I'm quite liberal) but it's my belief that certain things should be reserved only for your boy/girlfriend--including intimacy.
Yes, sometimes sex gets old with the same person and you want to "spice things up." However, buy a dildo or a toy or something--don't bring another person into your relationship, regardless of gender.
All of that said, as a guy, there is NO WAY I would want to be within 50 feet of an erect penis. I just find men's bodies gross. I guess it's fortunate that I'm straight...
2006-08-10 13:33:04 · answer #5 · answered by Manning on the run 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree it's not fair. If he wants to do a threesome with you and another girl he needs to accept doing another one with you and another guy. Same to you.
You do both threesomes or none.
2006-08-10 13:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Introducing a relationship to polygamy is fraught with problems including trust, self esteem, etc. You risk eroding the fundamental principles of the relationship itself. Some people can make an open lifestyle work for their relationship. However, both people have to be brought into it strongly and both people have to be secure in their love, trust and sexuality.
2006-08-11 02:00:51 · answer #7 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would never do a threesome with a guy and a girl
2006-08-10 13:29:29 · answer #8 · answered by J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get your tubes tied so you don't get pregnant and bring a child into your reckless life. Watch out for those sexually transmitted diseases, some which cannot be cured. Then go Do every stud in town.
2006-08-10 13:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably thinking that because he just doesnt know what to say. males want threesomesthey can deny it but deep down they love it. like him have his threesome first then you can have yours.
2006-08-10 13:30:22 · answer #10 · answered by been there done that 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋