well me and my bf been going out since ever and we cant talk cause his momma says he cant use long distance and i lost my cell and also he came 2 c me and dat was only 4 like a week and he went bac an d now i think im pregnant and i cant call and i cant come c him cause he never home ?
2006-08-10 13:16:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-10 13:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by Jubei 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a tough situation. You're going to have to talk to your parents to help you address this situation. As far as long distance calling goes, it is very rare that people have this problem. All telephone companies in major cities offer wonderful long distance plans, typically this means unlimited calling for one small fee monthly.
Honestly, I think this boy is giving you a crock of crap using this long distance calling thing as an excuse for not calling you. Right now, if you find that you are actually pregnant, you need a strong support system, whether it's from family, professionals, or friends. You need someone to help you in addressing this situation and you need to be able to reach him.
I live in Chicago, Rockford is not a very long drive. You can get to him. There's always Amtrak.
2006-08-10 13:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by *~*~*~~~His Angel~~~*~*~* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Bite the bullet" and talk to your mom about thinking you're pregnant. You may have to put up with her being mad for a while and yelling maybe, but she may be able to tell you if you're not right, or get you a doc's exam to see if you are. Then she may be OK with getting together with the bf to discuss it. DON'T GO TO SEE HIM ALONE. A lot of guys get real nervous/angry/worried when they get news like that and act VERY BADLY about it at first. If they get a chance to calm down and think the situation through they can surprise you with how well they deal with a tough situation. If you are not preg., use this as an opportunity to look around and get acquainted with other guys who may live closer & have something in common. Don't get too close to any one for a while. Give yourself a chance to learn what men are like, signs of a really good (or bad) one, and use that increased understanding to decide if one of them is the right one to be with for life. You may be too young to make that decision for right now. Don't rush it. (If your current bf is so busy in his life that he's never home to visit with, maybe he's not ready to be anyone's One And Only.)
2006-08-10 14:34:44 · answer #3 · answered by ctfryland 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you thought spreading you legs for him would make him come see you more and now you could be pregnant. That is something every man wants to hear besides the possibilities of bringing a child into this world or are you a baby killer (abortion). You are being selfish you need to start thinking of the needs of your child for the next nineteen years ( until he/she graduates from high school) . You shouldn't be dating during this time so you can take care of you children. Get close to your parents they will stand beside you.
2006-08-10 14:21:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only suggestion I have is mail...phone cards and email. I would sugget a phone call if you are pregnant. No one wants to get that news through a letter.
2006-08-10 13:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try packet8 its like vonage but better. You can call local and long distance unlimited for a small fee a month.
2006-08-10 17:16:19 · answer #6 · answered by PV78 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my bf friend lives in chicago too
and i live in connecticut
when we cant talk on the phone
we talk online or even send a letter
try everything
in the end youll find a way
2006-08-10 13:22:50 · answer #7 · answered by tb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter , buy a new cell phone and buy a pregnancy nest
2006-08-10 13:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by meow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not sure, but it might not be long distance if you're calling him. if it is, you'll either have to email him or send him a letter
2006-08-10 13:21:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could e-mail him, or you could drive to his house and camp out until he comes home. That's all i can think of.
2006-08-10 13:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by Zappa G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no longer something, there is not any longer something for u to do, its no longer your relationship. basically be a buddy on your freind, neither you nor the buddy it extremely is telling her that knows what he rather does, except you eat, sleep and flow whilst he strikes and stay with him.
2016-12-11 11:46:58 · answer #11 · answered by jepsen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋