I have been with the same guy for 2 years and we have a baby girl together but I'm not nearly as happy as I would like to be. He just doesn't treat me like the great girlfriend i am.
2006-08-10 13:12:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
time to pack your bags.
2006-08-10 13:17:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better talk to him first regarding how you feel about the whole situation. A heart-to-heart talk where you two can be alone and he will be willing to listen. Perhaps, when he grants you one, you will discover some things which you have never known before or been aware of. You should ask him if there was something that you've done to hurt or offend him. If there was, better say you're sorry and ask for his forgiveness.
Sometimes, a seemingly warm releationship becomes cold and null when both or either one of the two persons involved is not open about how he or she feels about something or the other person. If only one is to be honest with his feelings, reactions, or emotions concerning the person he has relationship with, may be, so many broken relationships worldwide have been saved.
Don't ever think of leaving him without you talking to him about your reasons. Let him know what is in your heart so that if ever by chance you are mistaken about how he treats you, you will know. At least, he will be able to defend himself and explain his side which may enlighten you and make you realize that, after all, he still cares for you and also may be, with you telling him how you see his love for you, he may realize that somehow he has done you wrong or has been very cold in his treatment to you that you feel that way and change for the better to your heart's delight.
May you find peace in your heart with the hope and belief that you will overcome that feeling you have right now in your heart about your relationship with the father of your daughter. Eagerly look forward to brighter and happier tomorrows with him and your baby girl. If you really want to have a happy family, conceive that in your mind and feel that in your heart. Remember the maxim, "WHATEVER YOUR MIND CAN CONCEIVE, YOU CAN ACHIEVE." Good luck.
2006-08-10 20:33:31 · answer #2 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby a lot of people forget that what it took to get you it takes the same to keep you so he is taking you for granted and he knows this so tell him how you feel and let it all out don't hold nothing back and if he don't change maybe it was not to be and leave him cause there is always some one out there waiting for him to mess up
2006-08-10 20:22:48 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have answered your own question. Don't stay in it because of your child-that is the wrong reason and when your child is old enough to comprehend the dynamics between adult relationships, she will see that you are not happy and you will just be setting a bad example for her.
2006-08-10 20:18:17 · answer #4 · answered by evonne i 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't treat you the way that you feel you should be treated, keep in mind that it won't get any better if it hasn't by now. Time to move on. Good Luck.
2006-08-10 20:42:33 · answer #5 · answered by winona e 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe instead of being that great girlfriend you claim to be, why not trying to be a great mother to that little girl.
2006-08-10 20:19:17 · answer #6 · answered by SANDRA J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if it was me i would leave just because u have a kid does not mean that u have to stay if your not happy go and find u someone that will make u happy
2006-08-10 20:19:29 · answer #7 · answered by g_hulst 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you feel like your not being treated right then say something just dont let him walk all over you...and if hes not willing to work this out then no its not worth it at all
2006-08-10 20:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't said if you have told him what you need.
You can't expect him to read your mind. If you have told him and he's being a jerk, then it's probably in your and your child's best interest to seek a new life.
2006-08-10 20:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Kelly T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl,
You need to talk to him, try to work things out first. Good Luck!
2006-08-10 20:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by Natasha B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋