a girl has told me she loves me, has deep feelings for me, and that I'm everything she wants in a man. Then why is she still wanting to be with her separted husband who treats her terribly??? One day she's so nice to me and the next day she wants him back.....
2006-08-10 13:04:38 · 18 answers · asked by woodersondylan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've showered her with affection, given her flowers. She is absolutley the most breathtaking creature I have ever seen. I've tried ignoring her, loving her, everything. There's so much more to the story, but space permits......
2006-08-10 13:18:55 · update #1
Because she's being unreasonable, get away from her, you don't need those problems.
2006-08-10 13:08:35 · answer #1 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she probably, at one time, loved her husband and he knows it and is using that against her by playing mind games with her....he's probbaly doing it on purpose so she won't/can't date anyone else.
Or maybe they are trying to work things out so they don't have to get a divorce.
Maybe you should ask her what the deal is..in a nice calm manner of course.
2006-08-10 20:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Elizabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing is she is torn between the two, probably because she is feeling obligated to her ex, having guilt feelings. it happens. but also, she has to make her mind up which one.. she knows her bad spouse cause she has been use to him for whatever time frame! she has to get to see why she needs to be away from that bad guy, and to show her how love and relationships really works. don't give up... but keep loving that person and don't allow that bully to take control of her cause that is what he is doing... not to love her but he feels like he can control her through her emotions. that is all..
2006-08-10 20:12:21 · answer #3 · answered by charity me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say she is just confused right now give her time to make a decision. you never maybe she likes to be treated like dirt or he is treading her not to leave him. ask her and see with the deal is no for you to hold while she is till married. why did you get involved with a married women in the first place.
2006-08-10 20:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by pappy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely that guy was her first.. You know us guys can go threw a bunch of chicks... well like me... YEAH the good times..oh yeah your question!! I advise you to part ways with her to see if she will follow you. But i recommend to stay away from her. There is too many fish in the sea BUDDY
2006-08-10 20:10:23 · answer #5 · answered by mailman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she divorced? Get the point through to her and get angry and serious- tell her that she needs to choose between her husband and you and tell her that you can't wait for her forever-she needs to make up her mind soon. You need to pressure us gals sometimes and slap us back to reality.
2006-08-10 20:10:03 · answer #6 · answered by I Love Himesh Reshammiya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's time to step out of the picture for a month or two. she has to resolve the issues with the first guy before she can have a relationship with you.
2006-08-10 20:09:33 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Berry Picker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that she must make a decision. It isn't easy to walk away from someone that you love even if you know it is the right thing.
2006-08-10 20:09:24 · answer #8 · answered by dgraham302000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is using you and playing you. I bet you have been giving money & she is propably not giving physical love attention either.
I say run as fast as you can away from this evil woman.
2006-08-10 20:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Tanker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like she still has feelings for her ex and at the same time she has feelings for you....u need to talk to her and ask her and see where u stand because you or anyone else cant live your life like that
2006-08-10 20:15:42 · answer #10 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you let her. you dont really want her either, or you would not be trying to date an unavailable man. and what happens if she does leave him for you? and when she gets bored of you, she will move on to someone else.
2006-08-10 20:09:40 · answer #11 · answered by gesswh0 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋