me and this guy have liked eachother for 8 years we have recently gone on a trip and we love eachother hes 15 and im 14 the problem is he lives in florida and i live in colorado and so i dont get to see him often but we have this amazing thing hes always though says he has a "girlfriend" but wont mention her name or anything to me its so agravating and i need help r we meant to be ar just a fling that has been going on for 8 years
2006-08-10 12:59:00 · 5 answers · asked by kenna 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you've been having a fling since you were 6? come on move on with your life your only 14...
2006-08-10 13:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by QTpie414 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distant relationships sometimes does'nt work.
Besides your young still,as so is he,and your just
beginning your young life.I would say be life long
friends and move on.Your only 14 and it gets better.
Enjoy the time when you do see eachother.
Far as a long term thing,I would'nt waste
my time with someone that lives so very far
away.Maybe if the location was closer.
But to say an 8 yr fling,that is truly funny.
Your so young,enjoy it,and have fun with it.
Worry about things that madder.
2006-08-10 13:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by lostgrandma1967 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it that you need help with exactly? Figuring out if you two are a fling or meant to be with one another? You shouldn't worry about that right now. Just 'be' who you want to be with one another. The distance makes it hard. The age makes it even harder. It's all the more reason to stop trying to figure out what and who you two are to one another. It's ok to just enjoy his company without trying to figure out where it's going. This is the perfect time in your life to do that. Stop worrying. Start enjoying.
2006-08-10 13:04:08 · answer #3 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol.. u don't know nothing about a relationship and u and him been together since u were 8 and 7, yeah that's hysterical...
if he says he has a gf then he ain't ur bf.. get over it and worry about school...
2006-08-10 13:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just a vacation gf, honey. move on....
2006-08-10 13:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋