Everyone wants to talk to someone when they're going through a lot. You just happened to talk to your ex. That doesn't really make you a bad person at all. It's not like you cheated on your boyfriend or anything.
Every relationship goes through tough times... it happens. Nothing is perfect at all. Everything you're going through, and everything you're doing, is normal. It's a good sign you don't want to give up on the relationship. It's up to you to decide whether you want to stick it out and wait for everything to pass, or if you really want to let everything fall through. That, though, is your decision.
As long as you don't have plans to get back together with your ex, you're fine. Don't feel guilty about that. ^_^
2006-08-10 12:47:10
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answered by Anonymous
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No you are not awful, and there is nothing wrong with you. If you feel guilty about talking to your ex, then maybe you shouldn't until you decide what you want out of this relationship. If it's worth saving, then go for it, but if not move on with your life, despite the fact you have invested so much time, money, and energy in it.
2006-08-10 19:49:21
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answered by doglady 5
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I don't think what you did is wrong and you shouldn't feel guilty. You spoke to your ex-bf right? over the phone? You didn't meet up with him, you didn't see him relax. I wouldn't tell your current bf about it. That is my best advice. Cause that would cause conflict based on something so little. Who needs that? There are much better things to worry about and get mad over than a phone call. I wouldn't call my ex anymore cause you feel guilty for a reason honey? You do love your current bf or have strong feelings for him.Don't call your ex anymore cause that was a slip up and you wouldn't like it if he called his ex-girlfriend. Respect him and he will respect you but open lines of communication a little bit more.
2006-08-10 19:51:21
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answered by Scarlet 2
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Your only having doubts because your having a rough time right now, it will pass. And if you want the relationship to be better then don't call your ex, your just opening up a new can of worms.
2006-08-10 19:46:52
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answered by CLM 6
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Your are a very Honest girl keep it up!!!!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with you,what i can advice you to do is that ,tell your bf how you basically feel about him now and be honest about it ,to be honest with you ,in relationships there are going to be hard times ,up`s and down`s ,which obviously gonna need you guys to be strong and stick together .Myself now personally ,i see your relationship in that position!.So basically you and your bf must sit down and talk about this as long as you both still love each other.Goooood Luck!!
2006-08-10 20:08:50
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answered by lerato.justin 1
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You're not an awful person, it's normal to have doubts, especially in a difficult relationship. You just need time to think things through.
2006-08-10 19:45:10
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answered by interpreters_are_hot 6
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just tell him what happened. i went through a roughpatch with my bf and we jsut decided to look at the bright side of things. money-no one has enough to keep them happy. you may need to go away for a weekend together and just relax. just tell him the truth. talk about things dont yell or fight. it just causes more stress. you may find that if you talk to each other things will settle down. talking is alot better for stress. you can actualy say things with out fighting.
2006-08-10 19:48:01
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answered by been there done that 2
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Its just that u r having a rough time!! Everything will b just fine, just look at it as a test 2 see if ur relationship really is worth it.
2006-08-10 19:46:45
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answered by princess 1
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an ex is an ex for a reason... no? for me, i'm really good friends will all my exes... my current g/f is totally fine with it. she knows they're "just friends" and nothing more. you're not an awful person for seeking someone you can count on to talk to, for a pillar of support. if you're stressed out, and talking to your ex helps, then do it. there's nothing wrong with taking care of yourself.
2006-08-10 19:48:51
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answered by classy_gui 2
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You need to decide what you want from the relationship, what you are willing to do to get it and is it worth getting?
the rest is up to you.
2006-08-10 19:44:31
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answered by Anonymous
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