I have moved out twice and he promised to leave me alone the 2nd time but he didnt. Why wont he let me go? He says he loves me and tells me I hurt him by leaving but he asked me to leave so I left. He accuses me of seeing other men but I don't, I actually have been spending more time with my closest friends and their kids (my own as well). I am willing to try again without moving back in, is it worth it or time to let go?
2006-08-10 12:36:23 · 17 answers · asked by Cat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
try it again but get physco therapy for him.take him to councelling.he has issues with trust and he is very insecure.
2006-08-10 12:41:32 · answer #1 · answered by retrac_enyaw03 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Let go. He's too controling and he'll make things up, like you cheating, to give him an excuse to hurt you, maybe not physically but definitely emotionally. He may even turn physical, like I've seen ssssooooo many other men do. Leave, for good. Men like him have a serious mental problem and they'll say they love you, hurt you, beg for your forgiveness, and when they get it will hurt you all over again. It's a never ending cycle and it will turn VERY ugly. It's not worth it. Get out of there.
2006-08-10 12:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by Elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem with my ex. We have been together for 5 1/2 years and been apart for 9 months and i think of them each and every day. I have done so much for her and her son and made them so super happy and one day she just dropped the bomb on me. I was very scared and hurt. I still want her back. I was like your bf the same way. But I had no one else on the side. My whole dedication and my life was towards her and her son. I loved being with them each and everyday. And they definitely enjoyed having me. Right now it's been very hard for me to move on. But with me working now it keeps me busy and I'm glad for that. So do what your heart tells you. Maybe you guys can work out you problems and try it again. If that's what you want. I know you made up your mind but if he still says he loves you and wants you then try it. If not then explain to him that everything will be OK and give him a little comfort.
2006-08-10 13:19:15 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on cause I hate to say this it can get worse I know you are not going to like my answer but I'm talking from the bottom of my heart if his controlling all ready it gonna get worse I read an article about this women that was married to this guy he got more controlling after they got married she was about to go to the store and he got mad throw some chemical that disfigure her face she looks like a monster and she was very beatiful. Also this girl that moved in with her boyfriend when she was sleeping beat her up with a bat broke her skull in million pieces survive but now is brain damage please think about girl you deserve the best a man that respects and trust you those are the 2 key words in love with so many other things involved
2006-08-10 12:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-01 22:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he accuses you is because he has had other women a friend of mine for years had to deal with the same situation and found out threw a family member he was seeing other women it sounds like he's got some issues and some insecurity's he will keep the circle of unhappiness going till you get tired my friend left her man 5 years ago and has a new hubby and baby they are very happy togeather.wishing well to you
2006-08-10 12:46:57 · answer #6 · answered by stefania_n2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't feel that i'am judgeing you! I have been through similar situation!
1st you have a dysfuctional relationship! 2nd if you really wanted him to leave you alone ,you would not keep going back to him!
I think you must be young or foolish !
you have set a trend through out your relationship and if you let him continue to mess with you ,odds are he will keep doing it and you just take him back ,so really what are the conscienceques?
You show people how to treat you and if they don't treat you in a way that you like ,exponge them from your life and DO NOT TAKE THEM BACK!
2006-08-10 12:45:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that he's one of those people who is never sure of himself and therefore, never sure of anyone else either. He was testing you, IMHO, to see if you really love him. And, because you left, he was hurt. Does he push people away in other relationships?
I realize that this is conjecture, but if I am right, he may never be able to make it work with you. You should probably move on and find someone more capable of maintaining a relationship.
2006-08-10 12:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, let him go...I promise there are better just waiting to know u. There is no sence in wasting your time or the kids on something that you know already wont work...Lots of luck and have fun
2006-08-10 12:45:22 · answer #9 · answered by machele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to let go. Now.
2006-08-10 12:42:12 · answer #10 · answered by interpreters_are_hot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋