Was he a good bf or a bad one?

Question

My bf when we were together he told me he wanted to date my creepy friend who rapped her bf anyway the first week that we started daiting he said that and I don't know why. Then whenever him and I are walking together he didn't hold my hand or put his arm around me in public. And whenever I am serious with him he just laughs at me and says you'll get over it or don't worry about it. Then this one time I called myself fat just to see what his reaction was and he said I'll by u lypo, pills anything to make u skinny. He is bigger than me he looks like a bodyguard for Britney Spears not muscular though. So was he a good bf or a bad one?