2006-08-10 11:47:22 · 4 answers · asked by bobbygirl 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Be yourself and try to talk to her, most of the time they're not like Regina in Mean Girls right? And if she is like Regina then its her loss!!
Just be yourself
2006-08-10 11:54:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to be friends with her? Is it because she seems so nice and kind that you think she'd make a good friend, or is it because you think if you become her friend some of her popularity will rub off on you? (I'm not being fresh. Its an earnest question.)
Is she so popular that you're too intimidated to try to talk with her? If she is then maybe she wouldn't be a good match for you right now anyway. If she's not intimidating you can just think up some simple way to say a thing here or there to her, and then maybe you'd start having conversations with her. If you say something, and she just kind of answers politely but doesn't add anything you can assume it may not go anyway.
Some girls are popular because they have a certain look that everyone admires - certain hair, certain clothes, a certain way of moving or talking. Such a girl may or may not be a nice person. Some people just attract people to them. Sometimes, too, a very popular kid in school may have a little "edge" to them when it comes to being a little on the mean side to kids outside the group. It is this "cool" edge that makes other kids admire this type of popular kid. So she may or may not be a nice person and/or a good friend. You just don't know.
Usually, though, when it comes to friends, friends just kind of find each other naturally. Usually, someone doesn't decide "I'd like to be her friend" and have it happen. You can try saying something to her, try starting up a conversation, or try to find something you both have in common to talk about - but friendship, itself, has to grow on its own and naturally. Some popular girls are popular because they have nice, friendly, pleasant, extroverted personalities that make them friendly toward everyone and that make everyone like them. Even so, if you're shy you're more of an introvert; and maybe the best kind of friends for you would be friends who are more like you. When it comes to a one-on-one friendship, you're better off with someone like you.
If, by any chance, this girl's popularity is the reason you want to be friends with her, that isn't the right reason. If that's the only thing about her that makes you want her as your friend, that wouldn't make you a very good friend to her.
The only way it could possible work out well is if you can forget that she's popular, strike up a few conversations here and there, and see if anything blooms from that.
2006-08-10 12:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make other friends just because she's popular doesn't mean she'll make a good friend. Stop worring about the status quo, march a path in your own direction based on who you are not who or what others are
2006-08-10 11:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey!..well I think that you should just go over and talk to her..make sure to just be yourself..and everything should end up fine or if you have a friend who knows her then just have him or her introduce you!!
2006-08-10 12:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by gorJESS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋