Right here. Thoughts on women? A beautiful creation of God. Of those who are my close sisters, very sensitive and caring.
Thoughts on sex? Wonderful when enjoyed in the context of marriage. Outside of marriage, it can be used against you by the enemy. Besides the closeness it has brought me to my wife, sex began the miracle which is my two adorable children.
The important thing to always remember about passion. You must master it, or it will run your life. Eventually, it will lead you toward destruction. Master it, and it will be a source of great delight. Keep the Bible as your guide. I did, and it was the best decision I ever made.
2006-08-10 11:47:26
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answered by Anonymous
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I agree with the first couple answers you received..
Women are beautiful creations of God. Sex should be enjoyed between one man and one woman, within the context of marriage. Sadly current society makes sexual purity increasingly difficult (I didn't make it, but I strive to from here on) but it's not impossible!
Here's a 3 part message series from my church regarding the importance of sexual purity, it's in total about an hour and a half long, well worth listening to.
Part 1, Understanding Sexual Addiction
http://www.eaglebrookchurch.com/resources/messages.html?id=73
Part 2, Navigating the Landmines of Lust
http://www.eaglebrookchurch.com/resources/messages.html?id=72
Part 3, God's Plan for Great Sex
http://www.eaglebrookchurch.com/resources/messages.html?id=71
2006-08-10 12:07:12
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answered by tcindie 4
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Your 15 yrs old shouldn't you save yourself until you are married? It will be more special for you if stayed away from fornication and wait till marriage to even think about sex!
Please read 1 Corinthians ch.7 and ch.11 also look up Ephesian ch.5. Stay away from guys that just want to get up your skirt and if they keep telling you they love you and keep insisting to have sex with you. Then they truely DO NOT LOVE YOU!
If they can't wait with you till marriage then they will certainly not respect you NOW and NEVER will! Believe me if you save your self till marriage for that special guy you won't regret it and you will love each other that much more.
The Bible states that when two come together they become one and I don't think you want to become one with a grip of guys or your guy with a grip of girls! Then if that was the case its like you went sleeping with all those people you and your lover slept with!
Get with a Born-Again Bible Believer in Jesus Christ preferably with a non-denominational and He should be more into Jesus Christ than you are an he should always put him first! remeber you want a Leader not a follower and one day you will marry a man who will be the head of the house hold!
God Bless in Jesus Christ!
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2006-08-10 12:04:12
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answered by iceman4christ@sbcglobal.net 2
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God created Sex for a way of showing love and populating the world. Men and women are to love each other and that each man should receive his due benevolence. God uses love/sex as an analogy as his love for us and that committing adultery against God is worshiping other Gods.
Want to read a sexy story. Open your Bible to the song of Solomon
2006-08-10 11:52:18
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answered by ? 6
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My thoughts are clouded because of the Original Sin and Satan.
God seemed to make us men "desire" someone and then to "wanna."
Women don't to the extreme of men. They are the balancing act.
I'll share something with you that changed my whole persepective on sex and sex objects.
One of my girlfriends took to befriending the disenfranchised male gay culture in the 1970 and she invited me on a trip thought that world.
Now, I've been to Catholic services, known Muslims, Mormons, Seventh Day Adventists, Ba'Hais, I've been to Jewish services, I've been to Pentacostal services. I'm not one to shy away from a new experience.
In the gay clubs guys were looking at me and for 1/10th of 1 second I knew what it was like to be a woman who is looking at a man who is licking his lips and wants to bend her over and stick it inside.
That changed my life and I decided I didn't to be like that and just look at girls as some place to stick it.
IT's not an easy thing to do when you have natural desires and it has been proven that boys long before puberty or boys who are metnally retarded get the same arousal factors. It's not a consicous thing. We don't say, LET IT BE HARD. It gets hard on it's own as a part of the natural process.
Since then I've had a more liberal attitude on gays and gay rights. It struck me that maybe God created Gays for a reason and maybe I found a part of that reason for when I became a sex object of someone I didn't want to be a sex object of, I found it objectinable.
The average hetro never experiences this. Hence they cling to their standard of beliefs.
Since then I look at women as more than just a pretty face, a body and a place to stick it.
I also understand both hetro and homo better now, as they each have their own set of "desires" and "turn ons" and they have NO self control over this.
Both get aroused and have no control over it. A specific "person" in general arouses them more than another person.
It's a matter of do you give into it or not.
That requires free will and fighting against Satan.
Those who, outside of marraige and consent (and you still have to have consent from your wife, you can't just take her and say you're my wife now, take all clothes off so I can stick it into you whether you like it or not) who give in are giving into to the sly devil Satan who gives them everything they want and fullfills all their desires.
It is still not easy. A Christian girl I know recently accused me of having lustful looks and I told her quite simply, if you're showing I'm looking. ALL guys like to look.
The question is, is do you act.
Looking, responding, giving in and acting are all different things.
I can no sooner stop a reponse from a pair of breasts as I can not make my knee move if the Doctor whacks it with a rubber hammer.
You cannot ask a man not to be a man, but not giving into the desires is something entirely different.
2006-08-10 12:33:58
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answered by Anonymous
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my thoughts on women are simply they need to be treated well. they deserve someone who can treat them the right way. i have respect for everyone....some people that dont like me dont realize that. but i like just about everyone. now my thoughts about sex.....????? im not thinking that right now. im only 16 years old and still in high school.
2006-08-10 12:14:53
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answered by Anonymous
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Orgasms are the closest you can get to the pure exctasy of God in this earthly life. Great sex is truly a religious experience.
2006-08-10 11:57:26
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answered by Elmer R 4
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If there are christian men on this religious/spiritual forum you would know by there (spiritual fruit) they bear!.....what they say would be in agreement with GOD'S Word!.....simple as that!....I suggest you go to church where they are!... having the same interests you have in the Lord and His Word!.....Good Luck!
2006-08-10 11:50:17
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answered by Anonymous
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I enjoy one woman in particular, my wife. Sex issues are between she and I.
2006-08-10 11:49:41
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answered by Anonymous
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True Christian men don't think about sex.
2006-08-10 11:56:15
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answered by Anonymous
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