ok so theirs this guy
i've fallen hard for him
when he found out i liked him he felt the same way
he had a gf in another state and now their over
so i though hey we can date now this is perfect but no
he got hurt supposedly and doesnt want to do another long distant relationship.
i dont hurt guys they hurt me
and for one were not exactly long distance were 40 minutes away
he has a car so he can see me
we go to the same church
and i totally understand where hes coming from that he wants to hold off
&& yes i understand he has feelings to.
he said he likes me a lot but needs to be friends for now.
but i've nver ever felt this way for a guy and i've told him..
we just recently went to the movies and he purposely sat next to me and we flirted
and he took me home even tho i live kinda far.
please give advice.
i dont wanna wait any longer
i want him in my arms
i jus wanna cry.
and hes so perfect
2006-08-10 11:42:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You cant change someone's feelings or their heart. Be as honest as you can but try not to step on his toes. Dont make yourself look desperate. If you can pay for some of his gas money to come see you or something it might work. He may still be recovering from the old relationship. The biggest thing about all of this is communication. Be sure to talk to the guy alot and keep in touch with him so he knows how awesome you are while also realizing that you guys can have a serious relationship being 40 minutes away from each other.
2006-08-10 11:48:20 · answer #1 · answered by silenced_fears 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess u r rite ur have fallin hard
i think he needs tiem to recover from the old relationship
b4 u n him can have one u have to have a friendship 1st
now in his time of need be the best friend u can be to him
after a while u see hes bak to feelin well ask him if hes ready
dnt keep pushin him or urself
if u wait around for him ur feelin r goin to grow deeper fro him and mb later wen u have stronger feelings 4 him hesdosnt want u n ull get hurt more
so now i suggest u to put ur feelings aside n be a great friend to him
that dosnt mean u cant flirt with him
u can still do that
but dnt push him in a relatioship he dosnt want rite now
2006-08-10 18:50:18 · answer #2 · answered by suker4love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get over what ever feelings he may still have for his ex. If he comes to you on the rebound, it would not be good. Give him time to get over his feelings and when he is ready, if he feels the way you say he does, he will come to you. Patience is probably your best right now. Besides, if he still has these feelings for his ex, he won't be able to give you his all and you will end up getting hurt. Just be his friend and when the time is right, it will happen.
2006-08-10 18:49:32 · answer #3 · answered by dingy peanut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a guy? is this some brokeback mountain shiet huh? I refuse to answer if it is! if it is not then here is my answer:
what is the problem then. If he really likes you then there should be no problem. Since he got out of a relationship, you gotta give him a little space though. Just talk to the guy and let him know how you feel.
2006-08-10 18:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey yeah, I'll give you advice but please email me so I can give you my email address, cuz I'm not gonna display it here, here's a piece of advice: Ok so you like him and it seems like he likes you too, thatz a gooood start, ok, I know wut will help, you should give him a picture of you, one where you look pretty, also you should dye your hair black, that will attract him more to you, ok, and so yeah give him a pic so he can always be reminded of you, and behind that pic write him a message like uhmm: We've been together for a long time and my feelings for you grow stronger every day, or something romantic that will stay in his head, also next time you go out, try to make him feel loved, like lets say you get him a lil obsessed with you, then when you're sure you've got him stay away from him for like 2 or 3 days that'll give em time to realize he needs you in his life! just keep trying, ok if you want more write back to me!
2006-08-10 18:53:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait for him to fall for you, but I'm not a girl so I don't know what it's like being one.
Here's my sisters' answer:
Wait till he's ready... He needs time to heal his heart from his last relationship... If he really likes you, then he'll tell you when he's ready to start a relationship with you... Just give him time...
2006-08-10 19:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by ed_boy5249 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just got through a relationship, give him some time to get over it. he said that he liked you too so just wait till he is ready, just be friends with him now, get to know each other better before you get in to it, if you really love him then he is worth waiting for, all he needs now is time, just give him some =p
2006-08-10 18:52:17 · answer #7 · answered by MooOooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? I am 29 and in my life experiences, if a man wants to be with you, you are together....there is no lets be friends first. This is a cop out and a lame excuse of " I want to be wild and have lots of x w/ women"
2006-08-10 18:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by Corie M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is so perfect, then the best bet is to wait for him. If you keep pushing, you will lose him for sure. One day at a time. Don't be in such a rush.
2006-08-10 18:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you wont break his heart like that because you know how it feels to be heartbroken. But tell him if he needs time thats ok. And if he wants to be friends then just be friends he will want to date again and you will be right there just be there for him.
2006-08-10 18:49:20 · answer #10 · answered by Alexia S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋