Me and my ex broke up a while ago but satyed really good friends. She got a new b/f who treats her like crap and is an ***. Even as just friends i would still text her goodmorning almost every morning so she felt loved cuz her b/f wasnt doin his job. About 2 months ago I stopped w/the goodmornings cuz i was tired of being on the back burner to her b/f and I wanted her feel like what it would be like w/o me in her life and try to make her see what she got rid of. So my ex stopped talking to me cuz i stopped saying goodmorning and being there for her everyday. I know she thinking of me cuz shes is doin little things to try to get to me like deleting me off myspace and putting how her b/f is the best b/f shes ever had and things like that. The problem is im growing weak. I want to talk to her but idk if i should cuz idk if she has realized yet what she got rid of. Do i keep waiting for her to break and contact or do i start talking to her again? What do i do?
2006-08-10 11:09:49 · 23 answers · asked by Keyon F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she sounds like a meanie and you sound like a nice, soft-hearted guy. let her go. find someone who deserves YOU for being the YOU that YOU are!
YOU deserve someone much better. Keep your eyes open and your heart will open up too.
2006-08-10 11:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by a_latinalady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WoW what a tangle web we weave. So she's playing the game and is beating U at it. Either $hit or get off the pot! If U do talk to her again, let her know how U feel. But if U don't - stop complaining. So U wanna keep playing? Do unto her as she is doing unto U. If you're tired of the games, call her up and tell her. And if she doesn't change, then move on, U can always re-place a friend. Especailly one that is an ex. Since U only stayed friends with her to get back with her. Don't be surprised if she still doesn't get back with U. But be very surprised when she does still wanna be friends.
2006-08-10 18:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Gremlin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok here's the answer...
It's not easy to hear: She doesn't like you anymore. Sure saying hi is nice, but; MAN! you're torturing yourself over an over again.
I've been in a relationship just like this. Best thing to do is...
Walk away. Go watch the movie "swingers." It will help you understand.
I feel for you. Girls don't know what they had until it's gone, but she doesn't know what she doesn't have, because you're still there.
The best advice is to stay far away, don't say hi. You're broken up. She moved on. Build back your self confidence and find a girl who is CRAZY about you. There are plenty out there. After you find one, the other girl will fade away.
The funny part is: Once you've finally found someone else and you've moved on... that's when your old girlfriend will come knockin. TRUST ME. Sad but true.
You deserve better. Move on. Don't worry about her. She can deal with the mess she created for herself. She knows your number.
Now go to the store and buy swingers.
2006-08-10 18:19:28 · answer #3 · answered by the markabel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
reality is sweety she has played you ...
she was getting her cake and eating it to.
you have been putting yourself in harms way by staying around as long as you have .
she knows your hurting and she knows with a flick of her itty bitty finger that if she breaks a nail and calls you .. your gonna be there to aid her if she will let you untill she is mended and then she will just kick you back to the curb so she can go on with her new boytoy.
step out of your box and look at what she is doin and how she is treating you .. is this really what love is ment to be like ?
or is this a case of i would rather have scraps then nothing ( which by the way is self abuse ) i know i been there for more years then i want to admit.
she has walked away and made it clear just what little she thinks of you so stop letting her continue to hurt you by being there for her and move on.. i know it hurts but sometimes loving someone means letting them go.
2006-08-10 18:43:06 · answer #4 · answered by bj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you guys are trying to stay friends, she's definitely not being a friend to you. I know its hard but I would try to cut ties with her for a while. See if you can get over her too, which is what she's trying to send you the message that she's doing, but she's clearly not over you. With out you in her life she will either come to the realization that she wants you back in it, or she'll decide to stay with the crappy guy. Either way you don't deserve being treated in a non friendly way. Try to move on, go out with you friends and have fun, meet new girls. You don't deserve the odd way she's treating you.
2006-08-10 18:18:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is sucking the life out of you!!!!!!!! If she thinks that she can get a response out of you she will do what it takes. She isn't very smart to stay with someone that treats her bad. Do you really think that you deserve to be treated like that, do you want to be stuck with her if she hasn't any respect. I think you deserve better. Find someone new and stick with her, because as soon as you find someone new this girl with come crawling back to you right away, just blow her off; unless she wants to be your friend
2006-08-10 18:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by JustCurous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I am hearing is that you were never really her friend, you were just there to guilt her into feeling for you again. If you like your friendship then you will be there no matter who she is dating or how he is treating her. If you have a problem being her friend then you should just leave her alone and let her lead her life.
2006-08-10 18:16:27 · answer #7 · answered by newgenre1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop playing games and stop responding to her playing games. She's with someone else...she didn't keep up contact with you, you did with her. Let her go...she knows how to reach you if she wants to...if she's going to play 'drama queen' and delete you because you stopped contacting her every day, let her...
Drama belongs in the theater, not a relationship (friendship or otherwise)...if she was really regretting what she gave up, you'd be back together already...
Move on sugar...she has.
2006-08-10 18:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay strong my brother. and, is she that great of a catch that you can not see beig without her? I mean, why does she mean so much to you. and why did ya'll break up? what if you move on from her and give another girl a chance? what about that? do you think you would be capable of loving another woman as deeply as you feel you love this person? just asking. hope you make a good choice. take care and God Bless
2006-08-10 18:17:12 · answer #9 · answered by one_sera_phim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wont break up with him just because you stopped those things unless she has feelings for you. If you want to help her talk to her, if she denies you then just let her be, let her live her own life because if you keep being there, she can never learn to stand on her own. If you love her, you have to let her go.
2006-08-10 18:16:49 · answer #10 · answered by Beautiful Nightmare 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to subject yourself to pain and frustration? She was using you as a "thing" to make herself feel better about herself. You dont have to put up with that. I would say get over her and the relationship you two had immediately and move on.
2006-08-10 18:26:06 · answer #11 · answered by ♥♥♥ Pink ♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋