I'm engaged to be married. My fiancee brought me out to meet his family in March of this year. To our dismay we were later told that they didn't approve of our relationship. His mother thought that I was a gold digger and that her only son could do better. My family was really upset when they learned of all of this drama unfolding in Colorado. They didn't think that I should be with Ray (my fiancee) but I told everyone that I was marrying him ----not his family. To make a long story short it tore both of our families apart. And things aren't how they use to be not that they were ever great to begin with. I'm 8 weeks pregnant tomorrow (AUG 11th).....and a couple weeks back my now former fiancee decided that he didn't want to be apart of me or my babies life because it would start world war 3 with his family. I recently started experiencing day sickness as a result of the pregnancy. I don't know what to do. My mother wants me home. Should I stay and start college or just go home?
2006-08-10 11:03:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
If you feel like you can handle the pressures and stresses of college while you are pregnant and very upset, then go ahead and stay. It will keep you busy and might take your mind off of things. Take into account that you don't want what you are going through to mess up your grades, plus will you be able to sit through classes while you are sick? Or you could start college now and then take off one semester, next semester, to be at home with your Mom when it's time for you to give birth. That way you will be getting some nurturing for you and help with the new baby, then next Fall you can go back to school when the baby isn't so new. It's hard, but it's better that you found out what kind of spineless, heartless idiot your ex is before you ended up married to him. Good Luck.
2006-08-10 11:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by nimo22 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Start college, that way you won't blame your child for ruining your life and not completing college because of her/him. AND get a lawyer and go after that low life for child support he may not want to share the baby but he can darn well share the financial burden.
2006-08-10 11:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by newgenre1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel is right for you. Either way go to college somewhere. He's a jerk so maybe it would be best if you were not near him right now think about the baby instead.
2006-08-10 11:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should go home and go to college there and have your mother help you and once the baby is born get your ex-fiance for all the child support you can and mail him a dirty diaper by fed-ex so he's reminded everyday what is missing out on
2006-08-10 11:19:38 · answer #4 · answered by MARY B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why you save sex for after marriage. Now you are going to be a single mom. You have my prayers honey. Go home to mom for awhile and then go to collage and get a career. Good luck.
2006-08-10 11:13:45 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds imature and his parents are obviously his priority and not you and the baby, I say move out and move on...............
I wish you would have been smarter and not put yourself in this situation with a pregnancy. So, begin with plan two!
Good Luck
2006-08-10 11:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start college. Move on. What a sorry guy. You'll be better off
2006-08-10 11:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Annie R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be engaged somewhere, and never be unhappy. Your mood will have affect on the child. I am sure that he will marry you one day.
2006-08-10 11:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by unisoul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love each other, then you should stay! Ignore everyone else!
2006-08-10 11:10:34 · answer #9 · answered by alandicho 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋