ok, i know i have some confidence issues to begin with but there's one that has really been bugging me. i like one of my friends but whenever i walk next to him, i have the tendency to walk very far away from him rather than next to him. i don't do this with other people but i find myself constantly doing this with him even without initially realizing it. anyone have any suggestions about how i might fix this without constantly having to take notice of where i'm walking and consciously make an effort to move closer?
2006-08-10 10:42:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you don't realize it, there isn't really anything you can do... but if you keep making the effort, sooner or later it will become a habit.
2006-08-10 10:44:55 · answer #1 · answered by Lovve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be your subconsiuos is telling you that you are to close so why not just stop walking for a minute and start sitting by him and maybe you need to tell him the truth how you feel about him smile be honest cause he might like you to
2006-08-10 10:50:13 · answer #2 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might have a tendency to push away what you really want, not just your friend but somewhere else. find somewhere els that you do the same and do what you would think extraordinary. like your friend for example, when walking with him and you feel yourself walking ahead, grab his hand and intertwine it with yours.
2006-08-10 10:48:42 · answer #3 · answered by Eryc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry you probably just feel shy and nervous round him and youre scared if you get too close he might notice you like him, truth is you should tell him cus he might feel the same way bout you just keep in mind that if he doesnt there are plenty others to choose from
2006-08-10 10:47:14 · answer #4 · answered by sinful vampyra 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're probably real nervous if u just try to forget bout him "as the guy you like" and think of him as jus a "good guy friend" it may get easier. dont know if it helped but thats da best i could do. i have a question i posted i need anwers to see if u can find it and answer for me please. preciate it.
2006-08-10 10:50:01 · answer #5 · answered by Here2Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if that happens just move closer maybe you don't like him it's just other peoples opinion slipping off on you?
2006-08-10 10:45:14 · answer #6 · answered by Bensonwannabee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its maybe that you feel shy since you know that you like him, and
maybe you don't really want him to know because you may feel
a little insecure with yourself and that is why you would try to avoid him .
2006-08-10 10:47:36 · answer #7 · answered by EVEI 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like your just a bit shy.. i think you should get more comfortable around him by like talking on the fone or something so you cant actually see him and you'll start getting used to him and then i think you wont feel that shy any more!
2006-08-10 10:47:25 · answer #8 · answered by carla h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try going to the mall and try to stay IN stores... smaller areas... you're bound to stick closer.
2006-08-10 10:48:03 · answer #9 · answered by Peter M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well all I can say is try not to think about you two as more than friends think of him as just a friend
2006-08-10 10:45:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋