This guy who likes me is really sweet. He so nice adn so shy and he really really likes me. And it's like what's there not to like about this guy, but that's just it; I don't know. He thinks I really feel the same way about him that he does for me when really I'm fighting this internal battle of weather I do or not. See, when I first met him, I was still trying to get over this guy I'd had a crush on for a year...so when my friend told me he liked me, i guess I was just so thrilled up in the fact that someone actually had a crush on me ya know? And I started paying more attention to him and we started talking a bit more but still, I didn't feel the same way I felt for my crush. And now like 6 months later, I just don't know how to tell him. I don't want to hurt his feelings bcuz that would make me so sad as well. I'd be his first gf and he's so sweet and everything..I don't know why I don't like him.....what's wrong with me? I know girls today that would kill for sumone like him.....
2006-08-10 10:34:04 · 6 answers · asked by K 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give the guy a break tell him u want 2 good friends but that is all.Hurt his feelings? What do u think u are doing by leading him on ,Let him know that any girl would be thrilled 2 have him as a BF. Just that u are not really over old 1 So u need 2 be good friends ,but that is all for now anyway.Stop playing with his emotions let him find 1 that would really like him for himself.
2006-08-10 10:47:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. u can't force urself to like someone. he may be a wonderful guy! but if there's not chemistry, there's no chemistry. ur not a scientist, u can't "whip" it up.
don't ever get in a relationship because you pity yourself, or cuz u pity the guy. u will end up hurting him, and hurting urself in the long run if u Do try to force it. what u need to do is work on urself, be a happy, confident, positive girl. that way when u meet a guy reinforces that, u will be able to appreciate eachother. just cuz a guy has a crush on u doens't mean he's "the one"... in fact, it has to be harder in order to find someone special right? if u take the time to look and seek someone who has qualities that are attractive to you, it will be That much worth it for you.
2006-08-10 17:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you are on a rebound you are right and if the chemistry is not there don't force it tell him you are still trying to get over this other dude and that you are not ready to be committed again but that tyou could use a good friend right now and you need some more time be honest with him and don't lead him on ps: you feel a little something cause you care about his feeling smile
2006-08-10 17:44:52 · answer #3 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iz he cute..I mean HEKa CUTe??? Not that it matters ..I think that u should give him a chance ..just in case u might just change your mind about him!! I think that if your crush don't like you ..he probably ever will!! So try to get over him!!!
I don't mean this in a mean way
2006-08-10 17:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by HaHa Thats Funny!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should set him up with one of your really cute friends--hook them up. Do it really subtly so he wont know. Or else, pay for a really beautiful hooker for him and maybe she will become the girl of his dreams and they can live together happily ever after.
2006-08-10 17:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Tony T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. If you care for this guy, make a decision to be with him or not but don't leave the poor guy hanging.... Don't lead him on.
2006-08-10 17:41:20 · answer #6 · answered by chrisadrian45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋