I have emotional abuse,me and my kids.I`m immigrant,and my husband taking advantage on it.Help,please?

Question

he says that i do not have any rights,I do not need to know nothing.He has two daughters,and older one-teenager,doesn`t likes me,she is making stories about me and she doesn`t coming in his house anymore.He keeps telling me that it is my foult,that I`m jealous,I do not have any rights of his kids,and he wants me not to ask about them at all.I have friendly relation with his younger daughter.I`m paying her to baby-sit my kids.
He is doing whatever he wants,without telling me anything, and that hearts me.I`m driving his car,I live in his house....and he said that I do not have anything.I must listen to him.
I stand up for my rights,even if I do not know my rights as an immigrant,but i know my rights as a woman.
when he is mad at me he is taking on my kids.My son is affraid of him.
he is treatining me,that he has connections everywhere,he know the lawers,and police.He locked the door few times,when I was out with my kids,
I do not feel safe,neither my kids.He is controling,and mean

Answer 1

SORRY BUT IF YOUR AN IMMIGRANT THE PROPER THING FOR YOU TO DO IS GO BACK WHERE YOU CAME FROM, A LOT OF MEN WILL TREAT YOU THIS WAY BECAUSE OF THAT...

Answer 2

Girl you need to park the car and take a bus to another county to a women's shelter tell them you have no place to go and you have children stay there don't under any circumstances tell them your husbands contact information and let them know that you are afraid although he hasn't hit you that he may and has made threats on your life! DO whatever they ask you to but let them know under no circumstances do you want to return home you want to get help so you can gain independence. Next make sure you get a restraining order in that county as well so he can't come near you and after that if he contacts you in anyway you call the police on his tail! Pack all that you can when you leave because there is no turning back you have to be strong. If you do have to go back things will be worst because he will hate you for trying to leave! Lastly, pray and if that doesn't work out find a host church or family of your ethnicity and seek refuge and let them know what's going on!

Answer 3

I know how you feel I'm being abused by my father. He abuses my mom and sister a lot.

You should try and call a family member and ask them to live with them until you find a place to settle (take your kids with you too)

I dont know the difference between emotionally abuse and the other one but if he has abused you and marked you take pictures of it to show the lawyer.

You should also get a tape recorder and put it on you somewhere no one can see and when he threatens you, the lawyer will also hear you.

But really, my best advice to you is to get you and your kids out there fast

Answer 4

You might want to talk to a social worker or even the police, because it sounds like domestic abuse.

And if he's your husband, then you should already be a citizen under virtue of marriage (esp. if you made children already).

I would definitely look up a social worker and tell them, or if you can't find one, just go to the police and tell them. I think you'd have a good case for divorce since he's beating and mistreating you like that.

Good luck, and I hope that things improve for you. No one should get away with spousal abuse, no matter what country they live in.

Answer 5

I feel so sad for you. You need to get out. If you were married in the USA then you should be considered a citizen....and are your kids by him? If so then they are citizens too. You should contact a womens shelter and see what they can do. I don't think they will care about your citizenship status and will do all to help you and your kids!

I hope for the best for you and I hope that your kids can feel safe again soon!

Answer 6

LEAVE HIM... is the best thing you can do. Don't let him abuse of you in that way. Yes he might have connections, but remember that there is a law that protects woman rights no matter their legal statues.Look for help if not you are going to end up getting hurt;. Good Luck, and God Bless.

Answer 7

if you know your rights as a women then what are you doing with him???? if he's beating you and your kids then why would you still be with him... how can you watch him abuse your kids like that..... and yourself... you should have enough respect for yourself and for your kids sake to leave this man and get some help.... i know its very easy for me to say because i am not in your place... even if you are an immigrant you can still get the help that you need.... it will cost him a lot of money to go through the lawyers and he cannot prove anything against you..... because he has no right to control you or your kids.... before he does something bad to you or to your kids you need to get out of that house and seek some help.....

Answer 8

You are being victimized. If you are an illegal then there is not much you can to except go to stay with friends.¿Son su marido español o el americano? ¿Habla usted inglés bueno? ¿Tiene usted a amigos que usted puede permanecer con? ¿Dónde está usted de? ¿Habla él español? No es necesario para usted ser maltratado y permanece allí. Vaya a permanecer amigos en una ciudad muy lejos donde él no le puede encontrar. Si alguien es malo a usted, ellos no le adoran y hacen sólo llega a ser peor. ¿Vive usted en California? Yo le compadezo a y deseo que pueda ayudar pero puedo no. Hago si puedo. Escríbame en [e-mail] y nosotros podemos hablar español si eso ayudará. Tengo un programa de la traducción en mi computadora y no estoy en México pero tengo un buzón allí para razones privadas. O, usted puede P.M. mí en el Yahoo. Los abrazos -- Tony

Answer 9

nobody deserves what Ur going Thru u need to be strong and try to get a job their r jobs that u could get but dont let him take advantage of u and make u feel like ur nobody stand up to him show him that u dont need the abuse and u can do better .the only thing that i could tell u is to pray.dont worry about him things will be better.

Answer 10

you should get to the back signal in gotham city and flag down batman. He is the ultimate hero and he could probably beat up your husband. He has a belt full of cool tools, most of them are for pleasuring women.