We have an excellent foreplay. But i need to open and unblock myself. I need to know what can help me with this situation.
2006-08-10 09:51:53 · 18 answers · asked by plastiquita1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-08-10 09:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the foreplay is too good and the actual SEX part doesn't come close (sorry for the play on words) to how good the foreplay feels. Still nervous about this person? Talk it out. What ever has you worried, concerned, and/or bothered, get it out of your system by talking to each other and maybe it will DO the trick......so to speak! LOL! Peace!
2006-08-10 17:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by mauilvr98003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's fine if u feel ok for being with him, and having an intimate relationship.
u ever thought about it a bit hareder, i mean, ur blocking. u have any idea, what might cause it? lack of trust, fear of something, etc... mostly it's about the trust and how much the partner is reliable. not only daily, but while u have sex.
and one more thing. most of the girls r also blocked, in the beginig. and so it's pretty hard to reach an orgasm. try talking to him. such a thing always solve itself.:)
be confident. think that there's nothing u can't do. :)
2006-08-10 17:05:41 · answer #3 · answered by Kaja 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time put on some music. Drink a little alcohol. Focus on the music dont focus on what he is doing and the fact that you havent had an orgasm. Tell him what to do. Show him. Relax. It will happen. Or play with yourself before he gets there.
2006-08-10 16:57:36 · answer #4 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't how long you guys have been having sex, but some women just can't reach a climax...unless they are fully relaxed with their partner. I would suggest spicying up your foreplay, a little porn, open discussions as to what your likes and dislikes. Experiment, go crazy with adults toys. Scream and yell, let loose.
Try a poweful vibrator (non battery operated) and see if you can reach a climax yourself. Good luck!
2006-08-10 17:27:12 · answer #5 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go to your sexual encounter with a goal-oriented mentality (orgasm-oriented in this case). Approach it as a pleasurable sensual experience, not just a race to orgasm, this'll help you relax and stop pressuring yourself to have an orgasm.
Discuss positions with your partner, whatever feels right for you, trust is key here. Also, if you feel that your partner is open to it, bring a vibrator with you, this could also help a lot...
But basically RELAX & ENJOY!
2006-08-10 17:06:55 · answer #6 · answered by cleo715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive heard that women sometimes worry about what they look like while in the act. What there hair looks like , if they smell, am I making enough noise, facial expressions etc...they concentrate on everything else and not the love making which sometimes causes a block. If this is the case just loosen up, it's time to get down and dirty get give him the ride of his life!
2006-08-10 16:59:53 · answer #7 · answered by Im_a_ gummie_Bear 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you work on your emotional relationship, a take a break from the physical side until you are both ready.It shouldn't just be sex,it should be love.Making love should be a beautiful experience,shared only when you are comfortable and know each other well at all levels.
2006-08-10 17:00:03 · answer #8 · answered by little One 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow you've only been with him 3 months and already having sex? probably why you dont have orgasm... your heart isnt in it... 98% of sex and a good orgasm is the mental or emotional part of it... if you arent really in to it then forget it!!
2006-08-10 17:05:27 · answer #9 · answered by monie99701 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should try oral sex before having actual intercourse. but dont let him make you *** just get in the zone and then begin with sex. Some experts say that some women dont have orgasms till they are like 30 . Yeah tell me about it THAT WOULD FREAKIN SUCK
2006-08-10 17:03:55 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think no one can help u here...
u have 2 find out by urself...talk 2 him & tell him...
there is not a way '' how to have orgasm '' ??
2006-08-10 17:00:09 · answer #11 · answered by KURTANGLE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋