i have a boyfriend in mexico and i go to my aunts and grandmas house to see him, but i guess it bothers them because i go every friday through sunday.my mom told me to go every two weeks but i can't wait that long so i dont know what to do and i love him.
2006-08-10 09:51:07 · 17 answers · asked by Nichole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, move on......
2006-08-10 09:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am struggeling with the same thing except my bf is 6 hours away and we both have jobs and I have a daughter, but it sucks. but love is never easy. you have to follow your heart honey, because if you weren't with him your heart will be anyways,put what you can into it until you feel that enough is enough. you will know when you are done with it. But until then I would roll with the punches because eventually it will get easier, before you know it you will get to see eachother more. If it is true love this will only make it srtonger in the end. Good luck sweetheart i know how you feel. It can be so hard at times but just think of the way that you feel when you are with him, that will help you get through.
2006-08-10 09:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Jolee N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you should just DUMP HIM because you dont see him very often. i agree with some of the others; maybe every 2 weeks; it may seem longer- but think of how great it will feel when you do see him. can he come visit you ? im sure everything will work out =)
good luck !
2006-08-10 10:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by marissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That depends on how strong your relationship is with him. If you and him are truly in love and care for each other, you should stay with him. Your love will eventually unite each other and you won't have to worry about going to see him every weekend because he'll be right there with you.
2006-08-10 09:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really do love him then you can wait to see him, if u cant wait then you really dont love him... leaving him just because you cant see him often?? what about him... how do you think he feels? maybe he loves you too and will wait to see you the next chance you guys get... dont give up just because of a stupid reason..
if you dump him... you will just later get mad at yourself for leaving something special.. and ask why did you leave him
live life without regrets
2006-08-10 09:57:11 · answer #5 · answered by MooOooo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there any way that you can make it every two weeks and he can come see you whenever you're not there? try to work soemthing out and talk to ur family about it let them know how u feel.
2006-08-10 09:57:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u wont go ouyt wid him but yull see him instead its just like going out with him but you can see other people at the same tym xxx
good luck
2006-08-10 09:55:45 · answer #7 · answered by baby-dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like him so much then, no. But then you would have to wonder whats going on and what he is doing. So I say follow ur heart.....
Good luck!!!
2006-08-10 09:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you and how old is he.sounds like your young. obey your mom she knows best. love will come and go throughout your life. if you truelly love him talk to him when your aloud and someday you will be together
2006-08-10 10:03:47 · answer #9 · answered by sweeetkisses2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him why are you considering dumping him?...i havent seen my bf for 5 months and we're still together...nothing should come between you two
2006-08-10 09:57:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love will always shine stronger than problematic situations.
if you love him, you will do what your heart tells you to do,
even if thats waiting two weeks, atleast you will get to see him.
otherwise you will be love-less and boyfriendless
2006-08-10 09:55:48 · answer #11 · answered by Ale[x]andra Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋