I know it's a cheesy saying
and an even cheesier Cinderella song
but do you think there's any truth to it
2006-08-10 09:44:42 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes there is definite truth in that saying. 20 years ago my wife had an affair for 3 years, or more, with a mafia type man. Tore my heart to pieces, would have caught on to it sooner, but when truly in love with someone, you don’t think of that happening. I was terribly hurt , almost left her, but could not leave her with that person, it would have destroyed her, in time. She was so impressed, he through money about, like it were water, $ 300 bottles of wine, etc.. But she would have lost me forever, she knows that and could not bear to live without me. She bore me two more children, beautiful as they are. Now she has passed and I miss her so, she treated me great and so hurt by her deeds, she would do anything for me, actually all I wanted was the touch of her hand , her smile and stuff like that. More precious than anything that we overlook sometimes, oh but for those days, I'd give anything or everything I have, just for a moment.
2006-08-10 10:43:57 · answer #1 · answered by niceguy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thats what people who have issues say. I think that everyone says that at some point in there life but things don't work out for a reason. Hiense sight is 20-20. Everyone makes the mistake of doing the whole shoulda coulda wouldas and that just gets you into trouble, it is what it is. Deal with it. Why grag anything out. take what you learned from it and leave it at that. that person just wasn't for you, look at it this way you are now closer to the one you are supposed to be with. Good Luck
2006-08-10 09:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jolee N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, I do. And it feels bad when you hear it 'cause the truth hurts. But it's true.
Knowing what you have while you have it and then loosing it, and then knowing it is truer than ever, then hearing that song is even worse.
Not standing a chance, and loosing something just because you didn't know how to deal with it, and seeing how it slips away until it fades away beats everything.
2006-08-10 09:54:13 · answer #3 · answered by lucantropeea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah...of course! Cuz' we take our family and friends for granted. Thinking that they're always going to be there to help us whenever we need it. But once they're gone, and we realize we need them and that our life wouldn't be the same w/o them. We then, finally, realize how much of an impact they made on our lives and how much we needed them whether we were in trouble or whatever.So that saying defanitly is CHESSY, but TRUE!
2006-08-10 10:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by archonette08 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because usually in relationships we take the other person for granted at some point. When that person is gone, we then tend to realize how much we need that person in our lives to be a whole.
2006-08-10 09:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's true because some people miss treat others when they have them and then find someone later that's not like the person that left or they miss having that person around
2006-08-11 01:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!
2006-08-10 09:58:47 · answer #7 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, and it can work either way, sometimes you dont realize how BAD something is until its gone and you find something better. But yes, I believe that. It might take a long time to realize it, but I have had that experience.
2006-08-10 09:49:21 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most guys I date they know what they had but didn't realize it til it was gone. I look at like their lost not mine, because when they had me, they didn't want me and I am a good lady.
2006-08-10 09:49:52 · answer #9 · answered by Reesa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah sometimes there are ordinary things in life that you do really notice because your soo used to having it around and once its missing you realize how important it was
2006-08-10 09:49:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋