We've been friends since last Valentine's Day when he told me he liked me. I turned him down for a date but told him I'd like to hang out with him. Ever since then he's been a really great friend to me and I feel kind of bad because I know he still has a crush on me. I only like him as a friend but should I give him a chance as a b/f?
2006-08-10 09:32:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really dont want to be anything more than friends, stay friends and nothing more. If you do like the guy, enough to give this relationship a go, i would go for it. You are already friends so trust is established and you must have fun together and enjoy being around eachother, or you wouldnt be friends. Hopefully, if you do date, and breakup, you can still be friends. You need to decide whether it is worth the risk, but i can see no harm in trying.
good luck!
2006-08-10 09:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends, you said you only like him as a friend right? Then why would you want to chance going out with him, possibly having something go wrong, and end up breaking it off. In those cases, really good friendships are lost forever.
2006-08-10 09:44:15 · answer #2 · answered by bobbie21brady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there are no such things as friends with benefits, and secondly, try and introduce him to someone you look up to or someone you think is as good or better than you at the things you do. If he likes you for who you are try to let him down easy!
2006-08-10 09:39:30 · answer #3 · answered by animewarlord5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice is that you dont because if you do if something bad where to happen and you two breakup and you stayed as friends your friendship wouldnt be the same. Thrust me it happened to me.
2006-08-10 10:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by sinner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear jump in to his arm if he was meant for u then thing will work out right. give him a chance.
2006-08-10 09:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Mimi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep try it give it a go u never no my fav saying
from friendship grows love
and from love grows friendship
2006-08-10 09:43:57 · answer #6 · answered by piscesgirlanne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should because you may end up falling in love with him... thats how i met my gf plus good friendships make for great relationships... good luck
2006-08-10 09:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not you'll get free food and he will take you places
you never know the other benefits can be good too
2006-08-10 09:41:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try him as a friend with benefits.
2006-08-10 09:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dunno, the same thing happened to me! its just all my friends were pressuring me to go out with him...and i eventually ended up goin out with him. personaly, gowin out with ur bff, isnt a good idea, cuz if u screw up ur love life with him...u may never b best friends again..well at least not as good as u were b4!
2006-08-10 09:40:21 · answer #10 · answered by chica 4 God 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋