what should i do?

Question

theres thyis guy that i have been dating for 2months he was so much in love with me he could not go a day without seein me but i guess i messed it up because i was scared he would hurt me so he broke up with me because he stop havin feelins for me i really like he he treated me so special when i was with him i didnt mean to scare him away i jus didnt want to get to close to him now i miss him like crazy i cant sleep at night and hes always on my mind i wanna try our relationship over but i dont know what to say to him we are still friends but it doesnt feel right i want to be more than friends i want to show him that i changed what should i do

Answer 1

just tell him u wanna go out again if he says no then u can move onto someone else but if he says yes then well ull get what u want

Answer 2

I think you should just call him and ask him to come over or meet you somewhere. Tell him how you were scared to get close. Many guys understand that if they know about your past or if it has happened to you before. Just tell him that you wanna be with him but he has to show you that hes not gonna let you get close and then just push you away. And if you have a past together its really hard to just be friends, especially if you see that person with someone new. Trust me I know . Just tell him how you really feel about him, if he doesnt respect that then you dont need him anyway

Answer 3

Beware...2 months and he was so much in love with you....then all of a sudden he can turn his feelings off...this is the type of guy that puts everything he knows into it...without very little warrant...he does it because he knows its a win win situation, how could someone resist...but you did...so give him a week and he will be in love with someone else....wait and see...if I am wrong then all you should have to do is explain to him the way you did here...but I think I am right on this one.

Answer 4

Well, you could tell him.

"Joe, (fake name) I've realized that it's so true that old saying... You know that one that goes, 'You don't know what you had until you loose it.' It's true and I want you to know that I do value you. I want to be with you but you have to understand that I've been hurt before and I didn't want to risk it. I see you different now. You're worth the risk and so much more... How do you feel about this?"

You could say something like that... Express what it is that you feel and tell him you won't take him for granted again. That you value him and also tell him that whatever his decision is, you'll accept it.

Remember to never take things for granted. I learned that the hard way.

GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 5

well i aint very good at stuff lyk this but all i can say is just go up to him n tell him that u ddnt mean it u were just so happy wiv him that u ddnt want it to go to fast n u ddnt want to get hurt if u explain to him the whole reason he might understand n just let him know that you'd like to try again...good luk
its the best i cud do lol im really bad at the whole advice thing :)

Answer 6

Wooooaaaaa, take things slow lol. Start out with friends. If your right for eachother things will get better, before your somebodys bf or gf you have to be friends.

Answer 7

omg u have the sasme situation i had like a month ago well she asked me back out and i said yes and now were great u shud ask him honest he will say yes he willprob say aswell he dont wanna be messed round but ur sorted now arnt you

Answer 8

Hard questionbut what I would do is wait until whatever he had in his system to leave. Might take a couple weeks then reconnect.

Answer 9

What a game player. Move on.

Answer 10

go tell him the truth ask him can yall work it out hurry up dont let him get away and this time you have to be more trusting