I dont mean to sound emo... but i feel like an outsider.... i mean.. well i dont have very many friends.. and i have very low self esteem.. im not hot... but im not over weight... i look like a punk with glasses... can someone help me feel better about myself.. and help inpress the guys? btw... im 13...
2006-08-10 09:22:02 · 18 answers · asked by ♥s!mply @m@z!ng♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I may be 13, but i lokk like im 17... yes i really do... its weird
2006-08-10 09:28:57 · update #1
you're a child... wait until your body fully develops and your emotions do too...
2006-08-10 09:24:57 · answer #1 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all sweetheart guys should be the furthest thing from your mind if you have low self esteem. You need to try a different style. Try something new, like a hobby, or making new friends, go with what you truely like not because of what is in style or what everyone else is doing, I would love to make you feel better but I can only give youadvice on how to help you do it yourself. It will mean more when you do it. you have to do some reaserach on yourself. First I would start with how you look on the outside. Try some new clothes something different, try messing with your make up. I go tanning and I feel alot better, less the makeup better. I use a little bronzer and soem mascara. Try that and go from there you will know what to do. Good luck sweetheart.
2006-08-10 09:32:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jolee N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It gets better (physically and emotionally) as you get older Take your time finding friends who are interested in the same things as you. Join clubs or school organizations to meet people who are like you and you'll be surprised.
Everyone doesn't neccessarily start off hot. Take this time to really develop the person on the inside so that when graduate from High school, it will be as beautiful as the person on the outside.
2006-08-10 09:33:21 · answer #3 · answered by symphonee3383 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety you're only 13 years old. Your body isnt even fully developed yet. You only start to know who your real friends are in high school. And the key for someone to notice you is being yourself. Stop worrying how you look and how many friends you have and start to enjoy your life the way it is.
You are perfect just the way you are!! Dont let ANYBODY tell you otherwise.
And ignore all the negative comments that people will throw at this question. They dont know you at all, so dont listen to them!!
2006-08-10 09:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hahahaha same scenario as me! Okay since I'm an outsider, i pretty much don't have any enemies besides the ones who hate ppl without clicks, so i just mingle with whatever group just seems to walk around. I you look hard enough you can find a group that share the same interests and see if they're the group for you
2006-08-10 09:28:20 · answer #5 · answered by animewarlord5000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put some contacts on, and try to feel better about yourself. 95% of women do not feel comfortable with their bodies and are not happy. Don't let this bring you down, and go out and talk to people. By the way, I don't want to be mean or anything, but if you look like a punk rocker, that's probably why people do not talk to you. Shed off the grunge look and try to look more girly. Guys like that.
2006-08-10 09:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by ♫MizzUnderstood♫ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok well im a punk myself but of course ur not gonna have lots of friends because there arent lots of punks and stuff and u dont need lots of friends u only need at least one best friend and a way to impress the guys is maybe wear sumthing more flirtatious for like a preppy athletic guy or just introduce youself to who u like
2006-08-10 09:26:37 · answer #7 · answered by Margera#1fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRy to put yourself out there don't suclude yourself to your little bubble I ask you to take a chance and talk to people if you hate it never do it again but it might really help you people are hot in many different ways so just because you might not look like a model doesn't mean your not hott
2006-08-10 09:28:03 · answer #8 · answered by CoNfUsEdsWeEt<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that's going to help you is confidence. as long as YOU think you're the coolest in the world, you will be =)
and p.s. life is going to pretty much be miserable for the most part until you're outta high school. that's just the way it goes. trust me when i say this! high school is like living on another planet. jr. high is like living in hell... and people suck at your age! they truly do. people are so confused about how they should be... just chill, be cool, don't try too hard. and have fun!
2006-08-10 09:26:58 · answer #9 · answered by Melissa M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're at a weird age, early teen years are kind of awkward for everyone no one's sure about themselves at 13. i'm sure a lot of people feel the same way. get involved in some activities like crafts or sports or what is it that your into and then you'll meet new people that way!
2006-08-10 09:26:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you still young you will grow into your looks go outside and make some friends join a club at school
2006-08-10 09:27:37 · answer #11 · answered by shaki 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋