i can't get the married man out of my heart. we no longer communicate but i still think about him. i saw him today and my heart leapt out of my chest. i miss him so much.
2006-08-10 09:19:50 · 26 answers · asked by gemone523 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
see a shrink
2006-08-10 09:22:42 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly K 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was also once in a similar situation. I thought I was in love with this guy and yes he was married. After a lot of regretful nights and feeling sorry for his wife, I realized there are way too many other men out there to be worried about one that is already taken. I suppose it does depend on what kind of relationship him and his wife have, because a lot of marriages fail on their own, but be smart and move on like I did.
2006-08-10 16:31:26 · answer #2 · answered by kt367521 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are going to have to get over him cause messing with a married man can only bring you much trouble and heart ache. Cause he ain't gon ever leave his wife for you so move on sweety and find a single man and fall in love all over again. Good Luck !!!!
2006-08-10 16:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by liliw24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a toff one sweetie! The only way you will get passed it, is to figure out what went wrong and correct the mistake(s) in your future relationships. If your wanting to (talk) to him. Dont let him see the hurt, but tell him that you still care for him. If the outcome was your fault, just simply tell him that you are sorry, and hope the two of you can remain friends. "Better to have memories of him, then none at all"
2006-08-10 16:37:48 · answer #4 · answered by wildcat06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there done that... Go on and discover that there are other wonderful men out there that aren't married. Do you know someone that attends a church with a singles group? We have great guys in our church that are single. Check out respectable places of that nature. Use your brain not your heart for whats right to do in your life concerning this guy.
2006-08-10 16:28:25 · answer #5 · answered by bugjuice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's wrong for you to be with a married man, and you know this in your heart as well. You will be nothing more then a mistress to him. If he has made the choice to stay with his wife then leave him be and go on with your life.
2006-08-10 16:27:36 · answer #6 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not get on with your own life unless you forget this man. Hang out with family and friends and keep yourself busy; read a book, listen to music, volunteer. You will eventually find yourself on the other side of the hurt. Keep trying.
2006-08-10 16:26:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get counseling to find out why you are afraid of a real relationship with an unattached man that actually has an element of risk to it.
2006-08-10 16:23:00 · answer #8 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I was in your shoes once too. The reason why you have those strong feelings is because he's unavailable. The more forbidden or unavailable something is, the more we want it, so just remember that the next time you see him.
2006-08-10 16:26:21 · answer #9 · answered by sweet_truth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's because you are in love, you can change this by falling in love with another man. that's the only it might help. find someone else, that deserves to be your love and is perfect. this way you can get out of this romantic deadlock.
2006-08-10 16:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by Sally 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can really relate to you, but if u dont want to mess up your life just try to stay away from tht guy..try to be busy and occupied in work,meet new people, friends...join gym workout exhaust yourself so that u dont have any time to miss any body..its hard very hard..i know very well but ..try your best you dont want to break a family. good luck to you.
2006-08-10 16:26:18 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋