i'm 25, i have neverhad a date or a girlfriend, is that bador is there something wrong with me.?

Question

i'm 25, i have neverhad a date or a girlfriend, is that bador is there something wrong with me. although i've many female friends, they tust me and we are great pals, but more than that, theres nothing.

Answer 1

I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you! Have you asked girls out? That's a good place to start. Don't worry, you're young - you'll probably meet someone when you least expect it!

Answer 2

I don't think there's any thing wrong with you although your thoughts about yourself may be saying something completely different. The simplest advice I can give you is to go on www.doclove.com and browse the site. If you can, listen to one or two of the archived radio shows and then order the "system" . I'm now 28 and b 4 I had this material I was single, had 2 exes, and wondered why women always said they liked the nice guy, but when I was nice to them all they ever wanted was to be my "friend". Now I know why and I approach girls in my salsa class, go to speed dating events and talk to girls on the net looking for the right women. There's nothing wrong with you, you just lack experience and perhaps some conficence. Order the "system" and become a student of it, and your days of lolelines will soon be history!

Answer 3

I think that's the issue, if you are always with girls then you give the impression that you are taken, or are a flirt etc. You should go out with male friends somewhere the ladies like to go. Make sure you look as good as you can and have a nice smile and a few interesting topics of conversation. Every1 likes a smile and someone who shows some interest in them and their opinions.

Answer 4

perhaps you need to make the first move on some of your female friends and make them aware that you are after something more than friendship. Then you would know where you stand with them.

seize the moment and try and make it happen. You will not be 100% succesful but you should get some dates abd maybe more.

Answer 5

I wouldnt say theres anything wrong with you. You seem to be happy and seem to have friends etc. But i would say you are depriving yourself. Take a risk next time your out in a bar etc try catching the attention or chatting to somone you like.

Answer 6

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Do you want a girlfriend? Just becasue everyone else has one doesn't mean you have to as well - you could wait a bit longer even.

I asked a similar question myself - I'm not worried. As long as you are trying to do something about it I think it's ok. When you do nothing and just leave everything to chance, that is a bit risky.
Good luck!

Answer 7

Hey dude! I believe you have to learn body language and flirting skills. You also need to improve your selfconfidenct. Go and search the web for some great articles!

Answer 8

I would definatly try to get out there. Sounds like you just befriend girls. Go out and party .live it up! your 25 thats a great age. Just go out and be social and someone will come along.

Answer 9

are you stupid? you're 25 and airing your personal business on the internet?! You're 25 and you're leaving your social status up to some strangers on the internet.......Good or bad is defined solely by you.... who cares what anyone else thinks! You're 25 and you need to get it together!

Answer 10

nothing wrong there, keep it going and save yourself a lot of worries in the future. If it happens let it happen naturally.