why do girls allways pic the bad boys?

Question

i think of myself as a good guy but some how i allways loose the girl to a bad boy does anyone know why

Answer 1

I think it is about time the 'Player' steps in.I want to say that a bad boy doesnt necessary have to smoke weed,be a trouble rouser or the likes.From what I can infer from the topic,a 'bad boy' in most girls perspective is a guy that can be termed a hard man,a guy who treats a girl good but at the same time set limits,makes the rules and be in control of a relationship.He says it in no uncertain terms that he is in charge of the relationship,though not necessary a bully but a little bullying every now and then to set things right.
The truth is girls loves guys who takes control of a relationship,who is in charge,who says something and they listen(not commandeering anyway),a guy that will sometimes disagree with their opinion on certain issues and give sound reasons(sometimes unreasonablere) for disagreeing,a guy that can stand up for them,a guy that is dependable in all situations,a guy they believe can get another girl with the click of a finger,a guy they believe is two timing or even 'three timing' but never get caught(a smart guy).Most girls loves guys that drinks alcohol(not a drunkard though) and not some perenial coke drinking or icecream licking lad.
The last but not the least,if the guy is good looking with some cash to throw around,the circle is complete.This and many other attributes are what girls thinks makes up a bad guy.

So all u girls out there,if u are looking for a bad ******,I m at your service.

Answer 2

I had that problem in the past, and the relationships all ended up pretty badly. The man I am with now is kind of both a bad boy and a nice guy. He can be mean and tough when needed and he can be a sweetheart. Just be yourself, you'll eventually find the girl for you. You never know the last person you'd expect to like you, wil in fact like you and be the perfect girl (That is what happened to me, I would never had thought my man liked me before we got together, we were friends a long time before we got together and I couldn't be happier, and I don't plan on leaving him for a "bad boy")

Answer 3

Women like confidence. Often they confuse the bad boy type persona as confidence rather than the lack of which is usually the case. Many girls do not have enough confidence in themselves and do not feel worthy of a good guy. Its much easier to a be the victim and blame their problems on some dipsh*t who's abusive and cheats. Girls that make such decisions are not worth your time or effort.

Answer 4

That is wrong concept. Girls don't like bad boys. Its some things that bad boys have that the girls like. Most girls who go out with bad guys eventually go away from them. girls like guys they get ATTRACTED to. Attraction in girls is something that even they cannot control. The good guys who are ready to do anything good for a girl are often looked at by girls as wimps. The bad guys don't pay a lot of attention to them and hence they arouse their intrigue to pursue those guys.

its the traits of being funny, cocky, stubborn, attitude, not acting as wimps among a few which are the traits that girls fall for. If a good guy like you has them (which i doubt you do) then they won't dump you else they will.

i am a good guy but not good like you. I am good at what i do. I have lot of play and girls like me they think i am fun ... you have keep the attraction on .. come on cheer up and for once be with a girl without the fear of losing them. tell them they are boring if they are. Don't complement them for something they are not. be funny ...

Bottom line ... don;t act like a wimp when you are with a girl.... I am sure you can work on these factors ... if i could you can too...best of luck.

Answer 5

Honestly, most women want a good guy but when a bad guy comes along they tend to think that the bad boy is more exciting and adventurous. Its just to satisfy couriousity to be honest. I'm a good woman and I've dated bad boys before and in the end all I want is a good guy to hold me and love me.

Answer 6

Girls who only want bad boys are ether bad themselves, stupid, into drama, or are very immature. why would you want a guy who is only going to treat you badly when you can have one who will love and cherish you? It's not some of their faults. a lot of them grew up watching their mother being abused and fall into the same pitfalls.

some just fell into the stereotypes and are obviously gluttons for punishments. Some also like to see if they can rescue the man, but it is a lot easier to fall down into a black hole than to pick someone else up from one. There are some that think it will be exciting to be with a bad boy, but my definition for excitement is not waiting at home for my man to come home from jail or burying him after someone kills him.

I have heard way too many true stories about some girl dating a guy and he leaves drugs in her car or in her home and she goes to jail. I know of too many stories of Domestic abuse or domestic murder to want to deal with a bad guy. I love good respectful buys. I am worth a good man.

I hope something I wrote helps you. all girls don't want bad boys, only the stupid ones do. there is definantly soemthing missing in their lives and they think a bad boy will fill it but they won't. They only make you wish that you'd never met them. or leave you with a bunch of kids who are fatherless ether because the bad boy don't want to take care of his children, he's in jail, or because someone killed him.

Answer 7

not all girls like bad boys but some of the girls think that they are attractive because they think they have much adventure.But at the end girls prefer good guys because they know they won't hurt them.

Answer 8

not all girls like bad boys. to some girls "bad boys" are just a joke. they like to do "bad" things. like they won't treat them right, get involved into something really stupid, etc.
but they look like they can perfect them.

like with me, i like both but mostly guys who are not afraid to tell there girl their feelings. it doesn't make them gay or anything like that. but some girls like the bad side. it's about 50%

you could be a "good / bad" boy. now that would be sexy! like Billie Joe Armstrong from green day! he looks like a guy who will kiss someones butt (and he will) but he also has a soft sweet side. and that's what makes him a sexy stud!

so being a "good guy" as fine! most girls will pick you over the "big tough guy"

don't worry. there are girls out there just for you.

Answer 9

It is easy to believe that "bad" in that sense is the same thing as "strong" and that a man who has good qualities is weak. Girls and women of all ages classically misintepret goodness as weakness.

Answer 10

Because they are gutsy. Good boys are slightly shy and have self respect whereas bad boys are neither shy nor they have self respect. They take it lightly even if they are rejected badly. Do you know they are more rejected than accepted.