I am 21, my boyfriend and I have been together for over a month. When is an apropriate time to tell him I love him? Should I have already told him? Is it to soon to tell him now?
2006-08-10 08:47:35 · 9 answers · asked by christie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You will know when the right time is. I know that is a cheap answer but only you will know when the best time is to say it in your relationship. I would be cautious of saying too soon for example right after you ask them out, however you don't want to wait too long. In my relationship i told her that i truely loved her after we had been together for a month. We were very close and spent a lot of time together before and after tha moment. Some may say that is to soon to decide if you are in love or not and some any say it wasnt soon enough. For me it was the right time because thats when i knew it and it evidently worked because we are still together and very much in love.
2006-08-10 08:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Brad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best time to tell him is when you feel it. I would advise that you make sure you know he loves you too before saying it though so he doesn't get scared off or so it doesn't turn into an awkward moment. My bf and I exchanged I love you's after 1 month and 1 week. We've been together for 3 years, 1 month, and 1 week. Go for it! Good luck!
2006-08-10 08:53:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's too soon to tell him now.
He might get scared and back off. Some people are afraid of commitment and love.
So I wouldn't bring the L word. And once you bring out the L word, there's no way to take it back... and it kind of becomes awkward if your boyfriend doesn't say the same thing.
Treasure the L word. Just give it some more thought.
2006-08-10 08:52:12 · answer #3 · answered by :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yess too soon you will scare him away. Do you even know what love is, that **** is crazy. He might not know what it is, and when someone loves a person but they dont love them back is really hard on someone's heart, so be careful to put yourself out there, like feelings and all.
2006-08-10 08:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be with someone more than a month before starting the i love yous
2006-08-10 09:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's way too soon. If you say it now he'll probably think you're crazy, wait till he says it to you first.
2006-08-10 08:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by Ann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends... do you really, genuinely, truly love him? Does he feel the same about you?
2006-08-10 08:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by kea33w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... he will freak out... wait for him to tell you he loves you, first...
2006-08-10 08:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by Another Addict 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you feel it
thats easy
2006-08-10 08:51:24 · answer #9 · answered by axon3_2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋