She's straight and doesn't know this about me. She also just broke up with her boyfriend and kinda down. I've been dying to kiss her but I don't know. Should I just give it a try
2006-08-10 08:45:49 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you should give it a try at this point.
She's your friend first before she becomes your girlfriend material. She's obviously feeling down, vulnerable and weak, and you can't take advantage of that. That isn't true love. That's just being... opportunistic.
What you should do is give her some time and keep an open mind for others. Then when you can't hold it in anymore, just tell her. See, the problem with telling her is the awkwardness that comes afterwards... If she's your true friend, your friendship shouldn't be affected.
The best of luck to you.
2006-08-10 08:50:07 · answer #1 · answered by :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cannot consider myself straight and I can never see myself as a lesbian (cos I love men too much and i plan on marrying one one day lol) so I'm in between which is bisexual :D I think I've always been this way but I never came to know or accept it until early this year when I develop such strong feelings for one of my straight female friends. Then well every little thing added up til now made sense that I've always liked girls - well i certainly never mind it when I was "straight" that girls hit on me and flirted. I get turned on by guys sexually but not so much emotionally. I can see myself dating a girl but not engaging in sex with them (unless well..I really loved them). Eventually I know I will end up with a guy , not only because my family is influencing me into it but I really want it too.
2016-03-27 07:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't just attack her with the news of you liking her when she just broke up!
If she already knows you are bi...just be her friend until she is over the ex and when you think she can commit and work with someone in a relationship talk to her about how you feel and how she makes you feel.
2006-08-10 08:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Amandruh05 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My mom told me a story about beofre I was born regarding a Lesbian.
My mom was dating this guy and she didnt know his mother was a Lesbian. She said he stepped out to go to the store and his mother came in to his room and jumped her. She was trying to kiss her and fondle her and ****. ewwwwwwww.
My mom is still to this day tramatized by that experience.
If your friends is straight, then dont do that. Not only is is a way to lose your good friend forever, but its really not ok. You could relaly mess her up, and she wont be abel to get close to girlfriends (friends) again
2006-08-10 08:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by chicata25 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she is straight you need to respect that. Just like you would want others to respect the fact that you are Bi. Don't kiss her, it is unfair to both of you to try somthing while she is in the middle of emotional turmoil.
2006-08-10 08:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Xen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to read her a little more before you give it a try, it might end a nice friendship if you freak her out. Hang out with her and be there to comfort her for now, you'll be able to get a read off of her pretty soon.
2006-08-10 08:51:20 · answer #6 · answered by goldiemcg 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's straight, there are plenty of lesbos that for you to go messing with a straight girl. leave her alone. You may loose your friendship if you do it.
2006-08-10 08:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you decide to do,you need to ask yourself if losing the friendship is worth it.She may not feel the same way about you and that would put her in an awkward position.
2006-08-10 08:50:43 · answer #8 · answered by kikasman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way it sounds from your previous questions is that you made your friend and her boyfriend break up in the first place hahah.. plus you sound like you are 12, but if you are serious do it when you are drunk and if it goes wrong you can blame it on the alcohol! :)
2006-08-10 08:51:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Has she given you any indication that she's bi? If she's strictly dickly, you could be setting yourself up for a heartbreak and a ruined friendship if she takes it badly. Trust your gut.
2006-08-10 08:50:16 · answer #10 · answered by Kitten 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋