Hey, I'm a Freshman in High School and I need advice i getting to know girls, when to make a move, etc.?

Question

I need Help. There are plenty of Hot girls in my school, I just want to know how to get their attention, dating, how to make it last, when to kiss, etc etc

Answer 1

OK. First question. Start by just talking to a girl you like. Hang out with her for a few days and get to know her. Then, after a few days when your ready adn confident ask her out. Just remember, your not going to always get the girl you want. So be prepared for rejection. Next, if she does say no, proceed with other girls you like. Be sure that you want to date them because of their personality, looks are a just bonus. But not everything. If a girl does say yes, congratulations you now officially have a girlfriend.Next, think of a place you want to go for a first date. Ask her too, for her opinion. Like a movie or dinner. Something like that.


Kissing:
Kiss when you are ready. Girls want the guys to make the first move and I'm pretty sure guys want to make the first move. I'm a girl so the guy HAS to make the first move the first couple of times. Then the girl will. Just lean in and give her a peck on the lips or cheek.

Frech kissing/making out:
This is all comfortabilaty. Make sure it's in the right place, at the right time. Make sure you are both comforable. When you are ready, put yuor arms around her waist and lean in. If she is ready she will put her arms around your neck. Then lightly open her mouth with your tounge and playfully "play" with her tounge using yours. Repeat as long as you want. Just make sure your both ready.




Hope I helped.

Answer 2

I'm a freshman too, and here are some ideas on what girls like:
1.) Girls always love a sense of humor. I always fall for guys who are really random. Like, this one time a guy just came up to me and was like, "Would you rather date Lucky from Lucky Charms or Tony the Tiger?"
2.)Make the first move. You may be really nervous, but girls find that nervousness adorable.
3.) Be friends first. Never move too fast, and don't ask her out if you don't even truly know her.
4.) No pick-up lines.
5.) You know that you need to kiss her when she looks straight into your eyes without saying anything. She might even have a weird smile on her face.
6.) Never stare at her boobs.
7.) Look at her and treat her as if she's the most amazing and most beautiful person who walks the Earth.
8) Be mysterious. Don't "talk about your feelings" unless she really wants you to. Let your feelings show through your eyes.

Good luck!

Answer 3

somethings that might help you.

1. don't crowd the halls/quad etc. to hug your friends.
2. don't think that your bad and tough
3. dont think your cool cause your in high school now cause noone likes u yet just wait a while
4. to the boys of the new freshman class most senior girls see u as yesterdays trash they dont care about boys who could be there brother
5. if u smoke don't try to think your all bad cutting class and smoking ifront of the school
6. don't go for a girl in a higher grade, she will most likely think of u as a "FRESHman"
7. don't be the annoying follower
8. just be yourself
9. highschool will be over before u know it

Answer 4

awww i remember when i was a freshman *sigh* oh so long ago [lol im a senior now :-D!!!! YAY] But hmmm... the main advice i would give you is to BE YOUR SELF. Dont try to be soemone else just to impress a girl. If they dont like you for who you really are and just a cheap imitation of you or of someone else then then find someone who will. I know that like i dont want 2 be walking down the halls and a freshman is tryin to show off 2 impress me ... no be yourself and we can be friends.

To get theer attention? hmmm .. be brave. Go up to them and introduce yourself and see what they are about and let them know what your about.

when to kiss? ... you will know when the time is right. Dont rush it have paitence. :-D

Answer 5

Being a freshman is tough, you've just started high school and it feels really awkward. The thing is, you want to stand out--be unique. You will certainly get attention that way. Be confident and proud, don't show that you are nervous. High school girls don't like weak guys, they expect strength in men...so show them you are strong. Hope that helps!

Answer 6

first off you don't want to make it last, play the field you are entering the best years of your life, enjoy them while you can. When to make a move is when the girl starts slurring her words and talking about stupid **** on and on and on. To get their attention you must be funny and confident. Enjoy your time in high school cause if you don't you will regret it later.

Answer 7

You're a freshman, forget it. Right now, you're at the bottom of the food chain. The only one's that will date you are the desperate ones because even the 9th grade girls will be trying to date older guys. Sorry

Answer 8

You should just try to focus on your school work right now, freshman girls are more interested with the older guys who have the cars.

Answer 9

To get them to notice you put urslef out there try not to be shy and once you have the girl call her and keep close touch but at the same time try keep your space you dont want to come on to strong or obsesive you knbow when to kiss when the timeing is rite

Answer 10

I'm going to be the one who's going to give you the most realistic and honest answer from everyone. It doesn't matter if you are funny or witty, a good listener, honest or sincere. If you have these 3 things, you'll meet girls, if not, then you're screwed.

-Be handsome
-Be attractive
-Don't be unattractive

The same rules to avoid sexual harassment, work for meeting girls.