2006-08-10 08:31:53 · 17 answers · asked by maggie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think love is: caring for someone So much that you want the best for them.. their happiness is above yours.
1st, figure out if u truly love him. do u want the best for him? do u want to do all, and be all, satisfy his needs? if yes, then continue.
2nd, do u feel like he wants the best for u? does he put ur happiness as one of his priorities? does he satisfy ur needs mentally, emotionally, and physically?
if u say YES , then he probably loves u. that's great!
but....
3rd, do u feel that no matter what problems come up, he is willing and able to do whatever it takes to fix them? does he work with u, in order to help the relationship grow? become stronger?
if yes, then u are on ur way to an Awesome, long lasting relationship. *but*, if he makes u scared, or unsure, insecure, unhappy, negative, or just plain bad, and doesn't know how to help you, or doesn't WANT to help you, then u have to look at those indicators. that will lead u to a bad relationship.. so that even if he does *love* you, if he can't satisfy you and make u truly happy, and try to, just as you try to satisfy him and make u happy, then u need to really look at what u want in a boyfriend.
good luck!
2006-08-10 08:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You know that he might just like you at first, but after a while he will eather love you or want to dump you. When he is ready he will tell you. The only reason you should ask him is if he doesn't stand up for you or it's been a really really long time and you have not discused any subject of marriage or of great passion.
2006-08-10 08:38:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your boyfriend expresses words of affection, shows a genuine appreciation for what you have to say, is conscientious and sensitive to your needs and feelings, it's very likely that he does in fact love you.
If his behavior is the extreme opposite however, and he completely disregards your opinions and emotions, his 'love' could possibly be questioned.
Take care :).
2006-08-10 10:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you found anther guy who you fell deeply in love with,and that you really love him,and you still want to be with him,and the other guy makes you feel like the happiest girl in the world,if he lets you go he truly loves,and after tell him you were just playing and that hes the only man you love
2006-08-10 08:39:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you just know it from the way he behaves, i mean when he treats you like **** you can conclude that he isnt really into you but if he is nice, kind and says a lot of nice things to you, then you can consider yourself a happy girl
2006-08-10 08:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you could describe him first of all, and if it were me, I would see how I feel around him. Can you two talk about anything? Would he sock another guy in the face for you? think about it honey.
2006-08-10 08:36:54 · answer #6 · answered by qtpie16707 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is know way of knowing because love is doing things which you would not normally do for a person.
2006-08-10 08:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by baggio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him do you really truly love me... Me and my friends have this thing called sq stupid questions and when we need to ask something we do. Sometimes it gets serious. so make it a game then ask him do you really love me.?
2006-08-10 08:35:56 · answer #8 · answered by Bubble Yum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it seems like he cares more about you than himself, then you can say he truly loves you.
2006-08-10 08:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by :D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
actions speak louder than words
2006-08-10 08:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋