2006-08-10 08:31:32 · 9 answers · asked by natskat816 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hear ya girl. That recently happened to me too and I work with the guy so it's especially hard for me. I've never been so depressed and upset in my life. What you can't do is chase after him and try to get him back because the more you push him, the less he'll want to try to work things out. I don't know what happened in your relationship to make him want to break up, but if there is hope, just give it some time. Try to find other fun things to do in your spare time and don't act like you need him. This sometimes will make him want to come back to you. In the mean time, try to appeal to him as much as possible without making it obvious. I believe in destiny and if two people are meant to be together, then they will end up back together someday. Just don't give up hope and I hope everything works out for you as I do for myself as well. Best of luck to you!!
2006-08-10 08:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by KittyluvR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not die without him. You will die without food, water, or oxygen, but not without a person. It may feel like it for a while, but you'll have to get past that. If you look back, there were probably tons of red flags about his behavior that you didn't really like but ignored because you believed you were in love with him. Sounds like you're probably in love with the idea of having a boyfriend and being IN love. There's a huge difference. Calm down, grieve, and get back out there. There is someone very special waiting for you and once you do meet the right person and do fall in real love with him, you'll look back on this and wonder why you thought this guy was so great and why you made such a big deal out of it. This, too, shall pass and you'll be a stronger woman for it. Good luck.
2006-08-10 15:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not die with out him. Life will go on. Maybe you are guys arent meant to be. You will always have care for him. You didnt explain why you guys broke up so i cant help you that much. But try to stay busy hang out with your girlfriends so you wont think of him. Im sorry but you will be okay.
2006-08-10 15:35:25 · answer #3 · answered by jenks1545 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can totally relate i had a bf but we broke up and i regret it but if he broke up with u u have nothing 2 regret if u liked him and u broke up it was not meant 2 be and he has 2 be a loser if he broke up with u. u sound like a sweet person 2 CARE so much i fell sorry for him if he was 2 dumb 2 realize what he had that's his problem and i bet u could find another guy like him
god bless u and help u find another b.f.
p.s. u not gonna die u will get over it i did
2006-08-10 15:45:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not die, and like others have said, you'll become a stronger and wiser person for this. Don't take on board any criticisms of you made by him, or any feelings you have of being inadequate. Just be who you are, there is someone special out there for you one day. You will get over it, don't worry. Time will heal you.
2006-08-10 15:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really can't help if I don't know the nature of the situation... I suggest you add some details if you want a good answer.
2006-08-10 15:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by kea33w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO YOU WONT DIE,,IN-FACT YOU WILL FIND SOMEONE THAT IS MUCH BETTER THEN HEM,JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE IN PAIN NOW,,GO OUT AN HAVE SOME FUN,SOME ONE THAT HAS BEEN WATCHING YOU WITH YOUR OLD BOY F ,WILL TRY TO TALK TO YOU AN YOU WILL FIND THAT HE WILL BE MR RIGHT FOR YOU.
2006-08-10 15:46:00 · answer #7 · answered by lynns26115 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself time to get over him . i know it sucks but find other ways to distract yourself and before you know it you'll have moved on!
2006-08-10 15:36:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should stay friends with him cuz at least he would b in ur life
2006-08-10 15:43:44 · answer #9 · answered by Priscilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋