i broke up with a loser. but now i keep thinking about the good times we had. so i try and think about the **** he put me thru and i feel better. but how can i stop thinking about him. im kind of sick of it. but it keeps popping in my head. i try and keep busy but the thought keeps coming back. this guy lied and played games constantly. so how can i move on.
2006-08-10 08:25:52 · 8 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have to give yourself time to grief...although he may have been a jerk to you somehow you where attached emotionally...people become habits like anything that is around long enough...habits are hard to break, we become obsessive even about things that are bad. Everytime thoughts of him pop in your head think also about how bad you would feel if you went back with him and you gave him the opportunity to hurt you again...Now that would feel crappy. You did a great thing, but now you gotta stick it out. You go Girl- Keep busy, go to the gym, take a walk, talk to a friend and ask/her/him to be your lifeline everytime you feel weak..and as times passes so will the thoughts. GOOD LUCK
2006-08-10 08:33:44 · answer #1 · answered by applemartini 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I went through a similar situation except that he was not my boyfriend but my husband. The day I started to love and respect myself is the day I let him go completly. I still think of him but now I love myself way to much to take bs from him.
2006-08-10 15:33:32 · answer #2 · answered by yadi23669 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
consider him as a liying sick dog but if u wannt 2 get over him just pretend he died go out with ur friends family and dont even metion him why think about him if he hurt u think about the feuture u have with gantlemen not stupid asswholes and jerks!! like him he probably doesnt deserve u
2006-08-10 15:31:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Break up's are never easy. It's a good thing that you realize that he was not good for you. He will be in your head for a while or until you start seeing someone else. Don't give in girl.
2006-08-10 15:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Susa 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Cleanse your system babygurl.......go out with some cool friends and meet some new cute guys ....but don't get involved with any of them ....just have fun ....movies , dinner, lunch ,beaches ,dancing , get that jerk outta your thoughts ..and it takes putting new people into your thoughts to do that sometimes.......good luck sweetie.
2006-08-10 15:32:35 · answer #5 · answered by Ty 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just get symbols of all the reasons you told him to bounce. For instance, if he wanted to do something sexually and you didn't/if he cheated get a pic of someone w/ a STD. And if he drank alot get one of a drunk driver killing someone's child..Do what it takes to let go of what is behind you and start anticipating the good things to come...... The best is yet to come!
2006-08-10 15:35:33 · answer #6 · answered by sistaplay2much 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just keep doing what you're doing. Remember why you broke up when you think about calling him.
Its hard, it always is....but will get better with time. I know it sounds cheesy but its true.
2006-08-10 15:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Miss. A. Laneous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The sex must have been pretty good if you're pondering this hard.
2006-08-10 15:33:16 · answer #8 · answered by Lady in Pink 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋