Personally I don't belive it, but I cant call her a liar without proof. She said that she thinks its dirty to her. The chick is 20 years old, I mean she should know its natural by this point in her life. So I'm not sure if she is telling me the truth or if she is acting all innocent to keep her cover. I know for guys in most cases it is a given that he has whacked it before age 20 but is it the same way for girls... I just think if she is going to lie to me about masturbating then she could lie about having sex with another guy just as easy. So my question is, just like in most cases it is a sure thing that a guy has masturbated by the age 20, is it just as common for girls to have masturbated by that point in their lives and is it believable to you girls??
2006-08-10 08:14:35 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it depends on her upbringing. If her parents have drilled into her head that is is wrong and dirty, she may be telling the truth. However, I do find it hard to believe. If she is being truthful, I totally feel sorry for her!
2006-08-10 08:18:59 · answer #1 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of girls really aren't into the idea of exploring their bodies on their own. They honestly do think it's dirty. I've had friends that were like that. Then there are girls who will do it every once in a great while, but wouldn't admit it to anyone because once again, they think it's dirty. Either way, what does it matter? I mean you can try to explain to her that it's perfectly ok for her to do this. There's nothing wrong with it. I really don't think you should pressure her to do it or admit that she's done it though. That's just going to make her more closed off about it. So if she doesn't want to do it, that just means more sex for you? And if she does do it and doesn't want to talk about it, respect her privacy.
2006-08-10 08:19:53 · answer #2 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boys masturbate for many motives, the biggest rationalization why is via the fact it feels good whilst they rub their penis against their mattress, or stroke it with their hand. THe boy will doscover how good it feels, and sexual stress builds up and the proceed an pass swifter as they aproach orgasm. additionally they discover out that the orgasm feels so good they can't give up. Boys generally commence masturbating at age 12 or 13; regardless of if, they might commence as early as 10 or 11. THey the two learn on thier very own, of from others.
2016-10-01 22:04:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexual preferences and needs are private and personal.
some people regard masturbation as a negative sexual thing to do.
some don't.but it is quite possible she has not masturbated at 20.
but leave the whole subject alone as the lady is not comfortable with it and besides why did u bring it up anyway, why do u want to blow her cover, why are u bothered about her having sex with other guys...are u afraid u wont be enough to keep her satisfied?
u seem to be more worried about her sex life without u than with u,
what's your problem? Afterall she is only a 'chick' to you?
2006-08-10 08:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by unique monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is not lying I am 23, married with 2 kids and I just masturbated for the first and last time 1 year ago when my husband was deployed. I didn't like it so I never tried it again.
2006-08-10 08:20:38 · answer #5 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls actually don't do it. If she says she doesn't then she probably grew up in a home where the idea of sex is bad untill marriage. She probably doesn't have a lot of experience. Now if she likes you to touch her with the finger then she probably is lying. Only time will tell. Also, some girls are embarrassed of it, and some aren't.
2006-08-10 08:20:17 · answer #6 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Masterbation is something you do in private. And from the lack of maturity that your showing by dwelling on such a stupid question, maybe she's afraid that you might tell your guy friends. Maybe she's telling you the truth and doesn't masterbate. Just because you do it doesn't mean everyone else does. Grow up and stop asking your gf such personal questions. Show some respect.
2006-08-10 08:26:41 · answer #7 · answered by CLM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure she has...she is probably just embarrassed for some reason.
I don't think because she is lying about this she would lie about having sex with another guy just as easy. Something or someone must have just made her uncomfortable about the subject.
2006-08-10 08:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by scarletbegonias9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's embarrassed to tell you, to a girl thats more personal then it is to a guy, girls just dont go walking around talking about that, but if she's never tried it then she doesnt have anything to miss, so maybe she's telling the truth, why dont you trust her?
2006-08-10 08:21:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe her. I never tried it up until I was around 24-25. Back when I was 20 I never even thought about doing that to myself. So I would trust her. So no, it's not uncommon.
2006-08-10 08:21:09 · answer #10 · answered by Susa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋