that i just broke things off with my ex fiance? because at times he calls me and i am ckidna down in the dumps. i really like this new guy. but at times i wonder if he wonders why im so sad. so maybe i should just tell him.
2006-08-10 08:09:05 · 15 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i know i just hate that he has to know me like this.
2006-08-10 08:47:15 · update #1
Yeah, I really think you should tell him, that way when you are down in the dumps, he doesn't feel that he is the fault for it. He can help you move on and get over the ex relationship. Be honest with him. If the two of you like each other so much, it will work out for the best! Good luck!
2006-08-10 08:14:30 · answer #1 · answered by Imthelittlesis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honesty is the best especially in a new relationship. You don't trust yourself enough to be honest with him and thats a shame because when you do tell him he may feel like he is the rebound guy even though that may not be the case. Just tell him and if he likes you like you like him then he will understand but the longer you wait the harder its going to be for you. He deserves to know anyway because right now there is no trust and honest on your part of the relationship.
2006-08-10 15:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you just tell him the truth about everything, youll have a better relationship, why keep anything from eachother. if you lie, hell fall in love with who you re pretending to be, and if he does the same thing, youll both be in love with someone that doesnt exist. people say what they think they want othes to know, but if you want a healthy, long term relationship, you know it is going to catch up with you; he will eventualy find out. If you want a short term relationship, its not worth the stress to deal with eachothers emotional problems, you should have fun. Keep in mind that short term relationship can lead to long term relationships. What you need to do is ask yourself what type of relationship you want with your boy friend and what he wants from you, then act accordingly.
2006-08-10 15:29:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should try it. Not like I'm teeling you what to do just get over the jerk guy that broke up with. If this is the guy you think your meant to be with you should try to talk to him learn about him. Follow your heart of what you want to do.
2006-08-10 15:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes get it out you will feel better it happens to all of us. Your past cannot hurt you , only you can hurt yourself with keeping it in. If you talk about it you will be glad.
2006-08-10 15:14:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea you should tell him! never hold your feelings in. look at it this way if you don't tell him now you'll never know.. and he could be thinking the same about you.
2006-08-10 15:12:54 · answer #6 · answered by ♥QT♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should tell him cause he may not like the moodiness. He may start to distant hisself~
2006-08-10 15:13:54 · answer #7 · answered by HotPucci220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its over with your ex, and this guy isn't crazy... Do it.. Only live once..
2006-08-10 15:13:10 · answer #8 · answered by cjdec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea before it's to late and he's somebody else getting before it's to late
2006-08-10 15:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by lilmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure why not, if anything he can help you through this rough time.
2006-08-10 15:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋