how can i get over this bad feeling?
2006-08-10 08:06:59 · 22 answers · asked by Rico 7 in Health ➔ Mental Health
they are not dead yet so why not enjoy them while they are with you instead of wasting time worrying when you could be enjoying each others lives
2006-08-10 08:14:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry that this is causing you so much distress. I hope you take a moment to realize that death is not a bad thing, it is just another natural process. There must be death in order for there to be new life. The death of those before us, nuture the growth of new life. Both in a physical sense, and mental. Bodies decompose, which puts nutriants into the soil that is the foundation of growth. Our ancestors teach us, and then they pass on so that we may forge our own way. Without death, there would be no progress, no change.
You will miss people that die before you, because they have an impact on your life, and it does hurt, there is no doubt about that. How to combat those negative feelings is to enjoy them, and learn from them, as much as possible while they are still with you. Love them, and then honor them, take the lessons they teach you and go forward and do great things.
2006-08-10 08:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by amyaliceco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
human beings so seldom say i admire you after which it rather is the two too late or love is going. So once I inform you i admire you, It would not propose i know you will in no way pass, in basic terms that I desire you probably did not ought to ... ? settle for the soreness, cherish the thrill, be sure the regrets; then can come the superb of benedictions - "If I had my existence to stay another time, i could do it each and every of an identical” ? to those i admire (Isla Paschal Richardson) If I ought to ever go away you whom i like to pass alongside the Silent way, grieve not Nor talk of me with tears, yet snort and talk Of me as though I have been beside you there. (i could come - i could come, ought to I yet come across a fashion! yet would not tears and grief be obstacles?) And once you hear a song or see a chook I enjoyed, please do not enable the seen me be unhappy ... For i'm loving you in basic terms as I continuously have ... You have been so good to me! there are such a lot of issues i wanted nonetheless to do - such a lot of issues to assert to you ... bear in mind that i did not concern ... It replaced into in simple terms leaving you that replaced into so not hardship-free to stand ... we can't see previous ... yet this i know: I enjoyed you so - 'twas heaven right here with you! ?
2016-10-01 22:03:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. We don't get out of this life alive. However, if you really knew what was awaiting you and the people you love after death you'd probably end it all right now so you could begin experiencing the complete, all-encompassing feeling of love being back with GOD offers us.
All I can suggest to you is to start looking for the positive things that are happening all around you. Every time you see something good, something that makes you smile, thank GOD for it. The more you look for good, the more you will find. Eventually the positive will overcome your fear of death and you will find yourself enjoying what is now.
2006-08-10 08:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by Hidden .38 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is an understanding situation, but you have to be more optimistic about your views of life. Take each day as a blessing and face new challenges ahead. Life is hard, but at the same time it is very rewarding. Find things that you enjoy to do to keep your mind off of negative thoughts. Surround yourself with positive people and you will soon realize that the people in your life love you dearly. Hope this helps :)
2006-08-10 08:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Candy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First you have to stop worrying. We all have no choice but to get old and die, it's scary, very scary but we have no choice by the laws of nature. All you can do now is live life to the fullest, enjoy your friends, family and people around you, don't take them for granted or anything for that matter, enjoy your life, do something you've always wanted to do. Death is very sad, but don't deprive yourself of a wonderful life or the joy your friends, family and people around you because of your fear.
2006-08-10 10:24:53 · answer #6 · answered by Shaybay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best way to overcome this is to believe in the presence of a second life in the heaven ur friends ,family and all people u love will be there but this life would be happier and immortal u would never be separated again
2006-08-10 08:18:45 · answer #7 · answered by smart 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately that is up to God. I do know that worrying does not save that person's life but I do know that worrying will not get you anywhere or them. Life is to Special, why are you wasting time on something like that. You are missing out. They are here today so stop wasting time. What kind of memories do yo want, not to mention you are not living life to its fullest. Being reborn as a christian you know you will see them again. You are being selfish. I know you mean good but it's only going to rob you of the life God has planned for you>
2006-08-10 08:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Debra M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know you probaly will just click past this but if you would have Jesus in your life you will never die and never have to say goodbye to your loved ones. I do not fear death because I know that I will be rejoined with my loved ones in heaven someday. I am totally amazed that people who do not live their life knowing Jesus can get through a single day with out this fear you speak of. How do you not worry about every step of your life?" I will fear not for thou art with me" I have troubles yes but the Lord is with me every step and I know this and feel his presence and know where me and my family will be one day. Seek ye first the kingdom of God.
2006-08-10 08:16:00 · answer #9 · answered by curiosity 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me all the time, but after some very odd advents it stopped. It sound like your afraid of death, i use to be to until and Out Of Body Experience. You might want to see a therapist and enjoy the time you have with them.
2006-08-10 08:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the deadliest truth that everyone knows but tends to ignore. However, the best thing you can do is to concentrate what lies immediately in front of you. Maybe you will have to see your doctor soon on this issue.
2006-08-10 08:18:17 · answer #11 · answered by doctor2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋