iIhave a 7 year old daughter. There's is 15 year old boy that says he likes her. I already hold him her age. My daughter doesn't even understand what he mean by he likes her. I've contacted the police already. They were of no help they say they r both minors. She is scared to go out and play. WHAT DO I DO?
2006-08-10 08:04:31 · 35 answers · asked by pussykat.1983 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
This boy is seriously sick if he likes a 7 year old at his age. I think that you should contact his parents if you are able to find out who they are. Or for the time being just go out to watch your daughter play. She shouldn't be deprived of her childhood playing because of this perverted little boy. Also I think it would be good to talk to your daughter and tell her the good and bad touches so that she knows and develop an open relationship with her so that she will be able to talk to you if anything does happen with her. It's not good that she attracts older males like that but that is nothing that you can help either. Be safe and blessings.
2006-08-10 08:17:38 · answer #1 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm suprised that the police didn't help. I would ask to speak to the Sgt. or the Chief. Not only are there stalking laws - but even a threat of child molestment is against the law, and his age has nothing to do with it.
Talk to the school counselor. Set up an appointment with your daughter. The school counselor will be more trained in a course of action.
If you try to talk to his parents, you won't get that far. They'll either deny the fact that there is something wrong with their 15 yr old boy - or he'll just keep trying in secret behind their backs.
Personally, I would file a restraining order. If your daughter is afraid of him, then he must be trying to do more than talk to her. No 15 yr old boy, with the right mental health, would be looking at a 7 yr old girl. They like girls their own age, and some tend to daydream about older women. But, not younger. Get him away from your daughter - now. Do what you can to protect her, and do it through the school system, and proper channels.
2006-08-10 08:37:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When is she around this 15 year old? Make sure that they do not spend any time alone. I would also contact his parents. Do what you have to do to keep them a part. Good Luck!
When I was 15 there was a girl in my class that was dating a 1st grade boy. It was so gross! We all hung out at a roller skating rink and the boy would be there on Friday & Saturday nights without his parents. Him hanging out there seemed a bit strange but then when those two starting dating - ewww! They would kiss and hold hands, all that boyfriend/girlfriend stuff. He even smoked! He had an older brother who would supply him with cigarettes. This kid also would get jealous and threaten to fight anyone who went near his girlfriend. He definitely acted too old for his age. I bet he is totally screwed up as an adult!
And yes, the owners of the rink showed their disgust. But they were not the parents and the kids were minors.
2006-08-10 09:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stay AWAY from your daughter. This could turn into a serious problem. Talk to his parents and if they are not understanding of the situation then I would say try to relocate or set him up. Because now days kids are being rapped and molested by other kids. Teach your daughter the good touch bad touch thing. And let her carry a whistle or one of those alarm things that they have out so she can get help if she gets into some kind of situation that she can't handle.
2006-08-10 12:44:37 · answer #4 · answered by Erica 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are quite right to get the police involved, as it seems your daughter is uncomfortable with the idea of him 'liking' her, and scared of this child, because that's technically what he is. Just tell this boy to leave your daughter alone. If he turns nasty, becomes a nuisance or there is evidence of this fifteen-year-old harrassing your daughter, get straight in touch with the police again. A child is legally responsible at the age ten, so the police excuse of the fifteen-year-old being a minor is, to be blunt, bullcrap.
2006-08-10 08:11:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You explain to him, as politely as possible (no assault charges on a minor, that's jail time) that though you understand he seems to like your daughter, she is 7, way too young for a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship...if this doesn't work, talk to his parents, have your daughter go out and play with an adult, if he continues to scare her, by hanging around, the police have to do something..
2006-08-10 09:10:39 · answer #6 · answered by Selena D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep your eyes on this boy... Even if your daughter is a "grown-up looking" 7-year-old, this is not a natural interest. Keep her away from this boy at all costs. Supervise her when she plays in common areas where he might want to come out and play with her, and (without scaring her) tell her that if she sees him while she is outside that she is to come in to you immediately. Talk to the local CPS (Child Protective Services) and see if they have any other information that might be useful.
2006-08-10 11:59:02 · answer #7 · answered by dolphin mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fist of all its wrong, he looks like a predator. So go to court and ask for a straining order so that he doesn't come near her, if he does you can call the cops on him and show the paper. I know its hard for the judge to give you one without evidence but bring your daughter to court and tell the judge that if anything happens with your daughter he will be responsible because there is a predator outside that you are trying to protect you daughter from and he is preventing. it will work, just make yourself scare and miserable. Don't wait for anything happen. Also make sure your daughter is not dressing inappropriate for her age like mini skirt or shirt. That is even worse, it helps him to be more attracted to her.Never Never leave her alone.
2006-08-10 08:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by tinybaby0120 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make sure you keep an eye on your 7 year old. Tell this boy's parents and if you have to go to the police every week and complain, if that does not work, call Child Protective services. This boy obviously has a problem and he sounds like a predetor in the making.
2006-08-10 08:19:21 · answer #9 · answered by SINGLEMOM4 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only help I can attempt to provide is try and create a controlled environment. If at all possible avoid this boy as much as possible take her to school so she's not on the bus with him. Have play dates with her friends so she's not just running around outside so you can control who is there. And if the boy attempts to do ANYTHING to her, call the police again and file a sexual harassment charge. Minors or not.
2006-08-10 08:12:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋