Why are all women the same?

Question

How come everywhere I go I hear women complain about their man and all the crap they go through. How come women that I'm attacted too are only looking for money and the girls that are worth anything and actually are really cool, aren't attractive to me. Good women don't exsist anymore,they no longer have goals or ambitions. WHAT IS UP WITH THAT!!!

Answer 1

Because you need to start to lower your standards and stop being attracted to the self-centred barbie-doll types. Of course those airheads will only want money - how do you think they ended up looking the way they do? They bought the face, boobs, etc.

Try asking a person who you think is nice but not attracted to out. If you go through with the date, you will find you are more accepting of dating outside of your comfort zone. The more you see someone who has a great personality, the more you will start to be attracted to what's inside, not what you see.

Answer 2

The reason that men think that we are the same is becuase thats all then men want to think about us. You don't take the time to get to know us. That woud be like me asking "Man always say that all we do is complan about the Crap they put us through, so why do they keep doing it? Wouldn't you think that if they are sick of hearing us complan about it then they would change it?"

Not all women are looking for money, you just need to stop looking for a GIRL and start looking for someone who is ready for a realsonship. And if your not redy for a realsonship then that is why you are finding the ones who just want your money.

And yes good women do to still exsist we just got smart and started looking for the right man instead of the ones who want to get laid. I am a good women, and I have 4 great kids and a wonderful hubby who I found because he is not self centered. You need to stop thinking about yourself, women see that and find very un-attacing.

We also have goals and ambitions. They are just different from yours or what you think they should be.

So if you want to get to it... the men are the ones always complaining. And if you really want me to I can get into that......

Answer 3

Good women exist but they probably feel your vibe of negativity and are put off by it. You seem as though you have had a few disappointments in the dating arena. I know how you feel. I am going through the same thing but I am a WOMAN. I can bring home the bacon, fry it up in the pan, and never let my man forget that he's the man because I'm a WOMAN. Don't put all women in one category because you have had contact with some that didn't meet your desires or expectations. Keep your eyes, ears, heart and mind open. Sometimes we shut ourselves off from the very person or thing that could be a blessing to us. Reevaluate what you are looking for in a woman. You may have to revamp your criteria. There are ambitious, goal-oriented, sexy and pretty women still out there. I know that to be a fact because I am one myself and I know several others. Don't miss out on a good thing. But before you will be ready to receive a woman of this caliber, you have to do away with the lowly expectations that you have of women. Think positive and positive things will happen. You are just in a slump. It happens to us all. I haven't given up on finding a good man and you shouldn't give up on finding a good woman. Good luck!

Answer 4

Uhhhhhh. Okay, here's a thought experiment for you.

Imagine for a moment that you're in a lot filled with cars, all different kinds of cars -- Japanese sport coupes, Detroit iron, German luxury cruisers, you name it.

And you want to start all these cars, but you only have one battery.

So you hook your battery up to a car and it won't start. Darn car, it must be no good.

So you hook the same battery up to another car and darned if IT won't start EITHER! What are the odds, all these cars and I pick two that won't start!

So you take your battery to a third, a fourth, a fifth, maybe eight or ten cars, and it's getting old because ALL these cars won't start!

Why are all cars the same? WHAT IS UP WITH THAT!!!

...And then you think, maybe it's not the cars. I've been using the same battery to try to start them -- it's the only thing that all these cars have in common. Maybe it's the battery that's gone off.

I had a similar thought many years ago when I broke up with a woman, had a new relationship with somebody COMPLETELY different. NOTHING like the old GF... but we broke up for EXACTLY the same reasons.

And on the way home from breaking up, I started berating my luck for having found two women who, even though they didn't look or act or dress or sound alike in any way, had the same relationship problem and had my relationship go bad for the same reason.

"I mean," I remember saying aloud, "they're completely different! The only thing they have in common is... uh... that they were both going with... Oh. Yeah. I get it."

Food for thought.

For dessert, try taking responsibility for your own life. It's an acquired taste, but once you get used to it, it's pretty sweet.

Answer 5

I don't complain much, but I question a lot of things. Money doesn't matter that much to me. I'm cool and attractive. My ambition drives my goal to become an elementary school teacher with a perfect GPA along the way. I'm on my way and on track with my GPA. My career will also have a goal- to not only teach, but encourage and support children. To help make their dreams come true. Sorry- taken and sorry to invalidate your question. Take Care!

Answer 6

ALL WOMEN AREN'T THE SAME!!!

But your question was stupid anyway. How can you say someone is worth something and they are cool but not attractive, so you wouldn't date them. STUPID! STUPID! STUPID! you never find that special somebody thinking like that. Maybe all the women you are attracted to only want money because they are high maintence boblle heads with no sense of inner beauty and are only interested in superficial crap. maybe if you scrub off some of their makeup and take of the glitsy clothes and mess up their hair they won't be worth your time either because without looks they have nothing to offer.

GET A CLUE!!!

Answer 7

You got a lot of nerve stereotyping women! The reason why there aren't any "good women" according to you out there is because we got even smarter and we don't want to put up with b.s. Money isn't everything and as long as a couple is happy, money shouldn't even be an issue. There are good women out there; they're smart enough to not go out with you! By the way... you need to check your grammar before you start offending people.

Answer 8

Hey I am a good woman. You just have to have a connection with someone really. Dont judge all women because there are some bad seeds. I have goals and ambitions... I am very independant and pretty. I dont have that much money but who cares about money it is everywhere and it makes people go crazy like stupied girls. dont judge us all we are not all bad....oh and u will find someone to love u . u just havent found her yet

Answer 9

First of all, all women are not the same. Women complain about their unhappy relationship to others cause they want answers to their problems.
The women that you are attracted are only money hungry cause that's what you expect out of them. Set your standards higher!!
Yes and there are good women out there. I am one of them, but I'm happily married. So why don't you use the head on your shoulders and i'm sure that you will eventually find a good woman. What you really need is a strong woman who will stand her ground. Stop looking and she'll find you.GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 10

sounds like the problem isn't women its you. You said yourself you are attracted to one type and not attracted to the other, so apparently they aren't all the same, huh. Just because you aren't attracted to them doesn't mean they arent' good. Try getting to know them, women can become more beautiful as you get to know them. The others can become a lot less attractive the same way. Maybe you are too vain to see whats right in front of you.