2006-08-10 07:55:03 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah id say u should definetaly confront her but dont be mean nor rude just ask her about it its easier 2 say whats on ure mind then 2 keep it bottled up inside u will fell better afterwards trust me u just need 2 see if she really was talking about u and if she was then my advice 2 u would totally be 2 move on shes obviusly not worth the effort
2006-08-10 08:01:03 · answer #1 · answered by skflaramee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on who she is talking to.If she is messing up another potential relationship for you or telling people whose opinions matter to you. But if you hear what she's saying from the grapevine and no one who matters to you is listening to her, then be a little tolerant,let it go.
On the other hand, if some-one dear to you is in danger of believing her, then time to do something- i recommend correcting the impression she may make by not acting like 'trash'.But be a gentleman and allow your ex-lady get away with it.don't confront her.
2006-08-10 15:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by unique monique 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, leave it alone. She's hoping you will confront her because she knows it's the only way you will even talk to her. She's more than likely sitting back laughing to herself thinking she's got you where she wants you. Make her feel even more stupid and ignore her and move on. Good luck.
2006-08-10 15:03:37 · answer #3 · answered by Renee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she has not let you go and somehow wants to stay connected.
She wants you to confront her because bad attention is better than no attention
Even though it hurts try to ignore it, people can see through it and anyone that knows you will know it isn't true and if they don't know you -- who cares.
2006-08-10 15:07:21 · answer #4 · answered by Busybake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's an Ex for a reason. Be the adult and ignore the comments. Don't deny or admit anything and nothing can be used against you.
2006-08-10 14:58:44 · answer #5 · answered by Xen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't partake in the drama. People who hear her will know that she is only bitter and angry and venting on her frustrations. If this becomes serious harassment (which I doubt it will), tell her to stop and consider legal alternatives.
2006-08-10 15:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by Spiked Coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
best thing to do is ignore her. this makes you the better more mature person in the long run. more about relationships and dating on this site
2006-08-10 14:59:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore her. Ex's are like that.
2006-08-10 14:59:41 · answer #8 · answered by madamesophia1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, it will just make it worse. The best revenge is living well. Laugh it off - that will piss her off more than anything.
2006-08-10 14:58:19 · answer #9 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keyword here, ex. Move on.
2006-08-10 14:59:05 · answer #10 · answered by someDumbAmerican 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋