I am a bi-racial woman and I date white and hispanic guys. I am married to a black guy now and he hates it that I used to date white and hispanic guys. He asked me if we ever broke up would I date another black guy and I said I would go back to white or hispanic guys and he got all mad at me and said that I act white anyways. How is it that a person acts white? I feel that you should date what ever makes you happy. What do you all think?
2006-08-10 07:46:32 · 11 answers · asked by Medical and Business Information 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you're 100% right! I am a black woman and even though I use to date black men about 7 years ago. I now only date white and hispanic men myself. It's my preference. I think the reason black men hate it when black women date outside of our race is because they feel a sense of betrayal, even though alot of them seem to have no problem with dating white women. But it's not all black men that feel that way, but a great percentage hate it.
2006-08-10 07:55:43 · answer #1 · answered by Renee 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
What he means when he says that you act white is that you DO NOT act ghetto. You display some level of adult intellect and not feel the need to "show out". You act like a normal human being an not a person who feels the need to let the world know she is a particular race, color, creed, or sexual orientation.
Date who ever makes you happy. I hope that you husband treats you well aside from his remarks.
2006-08-10 08:04:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Same reason black women get mad at a black men for dating white woman. Some of us were always taught to date you own race.
2006-08-10 07:58:58 · answer #3 · answered by Blondie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I get that a lot also. My friends think I only date white and Latin guys when that is not the case. You can not help who you are attracted to. I do not look at race if I am feeling you and you are feeling me then what is the problem. My current guy is Latin and I do not see the problem. To each is on
2006-08-10 07:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by fire84 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You just happen to be married to an insecure black man with very low esteem. For warned: You have a potential problem person on your hands. Take care.
2006-08-10 07:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Don S 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i am also bi-racial and was married to a black man. now i dont date so many, just because we dont seem to have enough in common usually. it really disturbed my former husband to think that he was competing against a larger range of types of men...so i think the pure numbers of your possibilities for who you are can be intimidating. logically, he cant claim that you are racist, we are all just people with our personal inclinations and preferences.
2006-08-10 07:53:29 · answer #6 · answered by Eos 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
to tell the truth blacks dont like whites because of the slavery and all that s**t and blacks dont like mexicans because they got in the US the easy way plus the mexicans think there all that
2006-08-10 09:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by philafan4o8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
b/c white guys know how to treat a lady.
2006-08-10 07:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
if you know how you feel then just go with it. you're not dating to impress or please others. so go about your business & forget what other people may say
2006-08-10 07:53:50 · answer #9 · answered by r.j, 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
i think your right so ignore how he acts about it
2006-08-10 07:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by elvis2 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋