My mother decided to throw a dinner party for twenty guests. Before the party she told me she was concerned I was fat (Im 300lbs). She told me just to watch what I ate at her party. I took offense to this- how dare she judge me! Im 20 years old I can make my own decisions. Thirty minutes before the party began she had all the food laid out for people to eat. She was in another room getting her dress ready. To get even with her, I ate all the cookies and brownies and wolfed down most of the shrimp salad and chicken wings she would be serving. By the time I was done, only some bread was left- I ate most of it just to make her party ruined! She walked in just as guests arrived and looked in shock- I had crumbs and frosting on my face and I yelled at her and told her "Yeah I ate all your stupid food for ur party!" The guests that had came left, and my mother cancelled the party. She now won't speak to me- and my Dad thinks I acted like a pig. I was on the toilet all night too- Help anyone!
2006-08-10 07:42:14 · 21 answers · asked by mrs sunshine 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
All your questions have to do with food and eating too much of it. And then there was one story about your grandmother who was in the hospital, and died, and then later on, you have another story where your grandmother wanted a piece of cake and you ate it instead. Stop making up stories. You sound incredibly selfish anyway. Breaking your little brother's legs, and eating the brownies/cookies/four pieces of cake/shrimp salad/chicken wings. What's next... a whole kitchen full of food?
2006-08-10 07:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by musicrazy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You need a lot of help. Even though you are 20 years old, you behaved and acted boorishly and badly. You owe your mother a huge apology.
When you are done apologizing, call a counselor. To eat all the food at the party just to get even with your mom is not only childish but a call for help. So, get going.
You owe yourself good health- physically and mentally.
2006-08-10 14:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by Malika 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First off I am sorry for you that your mother would treat you that way. But what you did was definately the wron gthing to do. In my opinion if I was in your shoes I would have just left the house. I would do whatever was in my power to get a job so I no longer needed to live with her. By trying to punish her for her lack of respect for you, you have done nothing but hurt yourself.
You need to consider your health. You are 300lbs and 20 years old. By eating all that food, Who did it really hurt? I am sure self esteem is a big issue for you. You have to see yourself as a beautiful woman. Just start cutting back on the food. I know its hard but you have to do it for you and your health. I know its a ***** to loose weight. I have been on a diet for 8 weeks and lost 15lbs. I want to loose another 30lbs yet and I am doing this all for a girl. You need to do this for YOU. Just start your diet. Give me a holler once in awhile if you need support I'll talk.
2006-08-10 14:56:21 · answer #3 · answered by Lonely Pa 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm here to tell you right now, you had better get your act together. This is not funny at all. If in fact that you do weigh that much, do you realize that you are KILLING yourself? You are not hurting any body but your self. It is true that your mother didn't have to say what she did to you, but that did not mean that you had to go and eat all that food if in fact that you did. If you did do this, I can only imagine what her guess thought and said about what happened. I think that you need to get into some counseling as soon as possible before it is to late.
2006-08-10 15:09:14 · answer #4 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you were absolutely rude!!!!!!! No wonder she told you to watch what you eat at her party. Sounds like you have a real problem, and you definitely showed your true eating colors. I wouldn't talk to you either. You really need to get some help. Being over weight can really hurt you. You can get heart problems or diabetes. You just ate enough food for 20 people. Think about it.
2006-08-10 14:51:47 · answer #5 · answered by kimmysue62 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
she should have been telling you this for a long time. and I don't think eating all the food is getting anyone back, its just making you look like an out of control person with a HUGE eating disorder. I think your dad is right. If I were you, Id be more cautious of what you are doing to your body......you really cant be happy.
2006-08-10 14:52:02 · answer #6 · answered by god 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, at least we know WHY you weigh 300 lbs. Bad enough that you're morbidly obese and apparently have no desire to fix this dilemna or even entertain advice on how to do so, but you're also apparently a vendictive little a'hole. I suggest you go on a serious diet and get some mental therapy, because you're a screwed up individual.
2006-08-10 14:49:46 · answer #7 · answered by baldninja2004 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your mother is probably just worried about your health - I doubt that she told you that you were fat to hurt your feelings. She is probably just worried about you (you are 300 lbs. at 20 years old). You shouldn't have eaten all the food. Your actions have consequences, and unfortunately can hurt other people, like your mother. You should apologize to her and explain to her how much her comments hurt you.
2006-08-10 21:56:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need help...she's ur mom...she wnats u to loose weight...do u honestly think 300lbs at 20 is ok? she's looking out for u and NO thats not healthy...ur still a lil kid mentally....all those ppl probably r talkin abt u
2006-08-10 14:48:14 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
ok that was really rude and you embaressed yourself in front of the whole party and made yourself look like a total whack job if you where my daughter i would have thrown you out fo the house for that one
2006-08-10 14:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋