2006-08-10 07:41:23 · 7 answers · asked by Yahoo User 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Beat her up, I suggest a baseball bat or a board with a nail in it. Violence answers everything. If you cant beat her up, hire someone who can.
2006-08-10 07:49:23 · answer #1 · answered by Ivan D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why she's jealous, then do what you can to show her that she has nothing to be jealous of. You may even have to go out of your way to show her. But if it's because you are the older child and you have more priviledges, then you need to explain that you had to earn those priviledges with time, and encourage her that she, too, will be able to have additional priviledges when she gets older.
Remember, a priviledge is not a right that's owed, but something that's earned through trust and maturity. With priviledge comes responsibility, and sometimes people only want the priviledges without grasping the responsibility that goes with that priviledge.
If, on the other hand, your parents gave you priviledges and you abused them, then they may be a bit shy in giving those same priviledges to your sister, and if this is the case, you'll need to "swallow your pride", eat some "humble pie", and explain to your sister how you messed up, and that's why your parents are reluctant to give those same priviledges to her. You'll have to take a pretty hard beating on this one, because you're actually taking the blame for your parents' decision concerning your sister. She might hate you for it, but at least your honesty and apology will go a long way to demonstrate that you really care about her. Especially if you offer to do your part in "mending fences"
This requires real sacrifice on your part, but you will gain the friendship of your sister in an ever deeper way.
I don't know if I covered your particular situation given the amount of information you gave in your question, but I hope it helps.
Good luck.
2006-08-10 14:54:06 · answer #2 · answered by no1home2day 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just wants to be like you. Take a little interest in her and maybe she wouldn't be so jealous.
2006-08-10 15:01:23 · answer #3 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find out, tell me. If I do something, she says she did it better. If I do this a certain amount of time, she doubles it. If I buy something I like, she'll buy i then say how she had her eye on it before. It drives me crazy.
2006-08-11 02:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by BONNI 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is she so jealous, talk to her and ask why and tell her you love her and she shouldnt be jealous of you
2006-08-10 14:46:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ignore her
2006-08-10 14:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by Krn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that she should grow up
2006-08-10 15:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋